I don’t know where to begin, it might’ve been social anxiety, maybe undiagnosed autism (I did a some tests with a family doctor, and he referred me to a specialist but I never followed through, that was at 23). My biggest problem as of now, is no one knows or even suspects it. I’ve had coworkers talk to me about relationships, and even close friends who ask my body count. Up until this point, I just lie and say 2. They ask me why I don’t go on dates, or “Hey that girl smiled at you, why didn’t you ask her out”. I had a female coworker say to me, jokingly, that I had a cheater vibe. Like I’m not a one woman type of guy…I apparently give off the vibe of a player but with no women. I want a relationship, but I’m focused on rebuilding myself and moving into a new career that I have to study and train for. Looking for some coping advice tbh.
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HAHAHAH trust me, if a girl tells you that you have a cheater vibe, you’re on a good path, my guy.😂🤷♂️
Bro, you already got it. You don’t need to stress rebuild yourself first.
As long as you have that project in mind, you’re set🙏
Why is “no one knows or even suspects it” a problem? Obviously, you’re normal and attractive enough that no one thinks or assumes you’re inexperienced. I fail to see how that is anything but a positive. It means that, while you might have some mental health issues internally, which you should seek some professional help for, there’s nothing too obvious stopping you from pursuing a normal life – romantic or otherwise.