My gf is Polish and idk if that matters but in the last 3 weeks we’ve been to Spain, Amsterdam, sushi Saturday, bikes Sunday by a lake. Like, that seems like a lot to me.
Then yesterday she says “We need to talk, we don’t do anything anymore. Before we did so much and planned stuff and now nothing.”
Honestly, I’m confused. We literally just did all that.
She keeps saying she wants to go to Dubai now so maybe her standards are just rising? I’m trying but it feels like it’s never enough.
Anyone been through something like this? How do I handle it without feeling like I’m failing?
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My gf is Polish and idk if that matters but in the last 3 weeks we’ve been to Spain, Amsterdam, sushi Saturday, bikes Sunday by a lake. Like, that seems like a lot to me.
Then yesterday she says “We need to talk, we don’t do anything anymore. Before we did so much and planned stuff and now nothing.”
Honestly, I’m confused. We literally just did all that.
She keeps saying she wants to go to Dubai now so maybe her standards are just rising? I’m trying but it feels like it’s never enough.
Anyone been through something like this? How do I handle it without feeling like I’m failing?
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Sounds like ADHD to me
Move on now and save your future self.
The point at which you become a failure, is when you bend your will to keep someone happy, while they don’t provide you that same joy.