I tried some techniques, masturbating 1-2 hours before lowered my drive and i couldn’t get as hard, but if i don’t then i will finish in less than a minute, or maybe 2-3 if i zone out and think about something else, it’s just so sensitive down there, im considering numbing creams but i dunno about the aftereffects, any tips?
How do you genuinely last longer?
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I tried some techniques, masturbating 1-2 hours before lowered my drive and i couldn’t get as hard, but if i don’t then i will finish in less than a minute, or maybe 2-3 if i zone out and think about something else, it’s just so sensitive down there, im considering numbing creams but i dunno about the aftereffects, any tips?
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I have the opposite problem and it still sucks
I’ve heard thinking about dead puppies helps
It’s very helpful when she bites a bit on the shaft while u pull him out then wait 15 sec and go again 🤙
Antidepressants
Try thicker condoms or condoms with mild anesthetics
Morning rub. It helps me at least. Last session I did was about 45mins and includes 10mins of sucked and jerked off.
Think of dead cats and nuns. Just for a bit.
You can get numbing sprays and creams but if you want to do it without those, try this: Edge and rub but learn your approach point and your near point of no return. Don’t ruin the orgasm, but edge until you feel a bit more would take you over the edge and keep it there. Keep edging at that rate and prolong it. When you have sex, do the same, and stroke inside her at that speed. She’ll want it faster so do something else like playing with her nipples, clit or just start kissing her.
I don’t.
I pick partners who I’d like to go more than one round with.
A couple dragged me kicking and screaming to a sex club a couple of years ago.
Colour my 50yr old ass educated.
Hope you get the same.
I need to know how to finish faster.
I lasted over an hour the other day, and ngl it sucked…
I masturbate once/twice a day to help with this. Wife takes a while to get there so a pinch of death grip syndrome is actually helpful. You don’t want to go too far of course though then you would ruin it all.
Its a combo of physical and mental. Creams and stuff like that? Who wants to have numb sex?
Her on top. She picks the rhytm that is usually slower than yours.
Yeah numbing creams, why not.
Practice
Relax your muscles. All of em. I know you gotta use em, but you gotta relax.
Antidepressants.
Think of grandma
Try to multiply 13 x 29 in your head
It’s actually quite easy if you have sex with hotter women. Then when you are having sex with a less-hot woman you can go for much longer. Another translation of this is to have sex with women who are good at having sex, the lesser good will be easier for you to go for a long time with.
If you consistently have sex with women you do not find intrinsically attractive, you have no reference point. This can also be good, but it doesn’t answer your question
Just pretend she’s Mitch McConnell.
Keep constant breathing like you were jogging and not sprinting. Don’t rush your movements or use maximum strength. Relax your body. If you’re in plank position, look for another, like having her on top.
I take a prescription drug called Sildenafil that helps me in my old age to get erections when I get horny naturally. This way I can stay a lot more relaxed and last way l longer.
try to pee
I think about football, my dead grandpa, things like that
Move more side to side and up and down, less in and out. If that doesn’t work try a cock ring
Standing up helps. Also starting slow and switching positions often, giving yourself a break and time to acclimate.
Idk how it happened. I used to bust really fast, then i sometimes wouldnt bust or take forever (which is way worse than it sounds if you bust fast), rn i actually seem to have a solid stamina for the first time at 32.