I know this has been asked often, but I feel my situation is a bit unique. I’m a 23M and have been dating my gf for almost a year. Shes amazing but I sometimes worry that she doesn’t have hobbies and things she likes to do without me.
I go to the gym almost every day, like to cook, and do other things that keep me busy, especially during the week after work. She currently lives at home while she is paying down her student loans and I live on my own. Because of this, she has almost no responsibilities at home because her mom seemingly does everything: grocery shopping, cooking dinners, laundry etc. This is perfectly fine as her mom enjoys this kind of stuff but I find it leaves my gf with tons of time on her hands that she doesn’t really do anything with. She hangs with friends occasionally but is constantly asking to hang out.
I want to see her but it worries me that she doesn’t have a lot going on without me. How can I handle this?
Most posts I’ve seen have mentioned how the gf gets upset when the guy can’t hang, but this isn’t the case. She doesn’t get mad and seems to understand when I just want to do my own thing, but she still doesn’t have a ton of stuff she likes to do on her own and that just worries me.
Edit: failed to mention that we do a ton of stuff together like golf and I’ve brought her to the gym with me. My concern is what she does when I’m not with her, or lack thereof if that makes sense.
This is also my first very serious relationship. Had flings in college but could never take the girls I met seriously (big party school).
Thanks for all the advice