How do you cope your own emotion in a healthy way without anyone knowing?

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How do you cope your own emotion in a healthy way without anyone knowing?

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  2. Defiant_Sir767 Avatar

    Meditation and journaling are the best ones for me. Bonus points: Listening to a song that relates to the feeling so I can self reflect easier.

  3. gdubh Avatar

    Have a person that knows.

  4. daddy-thro-away Avatar

    Remind myself that one day we’ll all be dead so why worry?

  5. Apathicary Avatar

    You don’t cope with your emotions, you feel and express them.

  6. Fishoutofwater24 Avatar

    I’m man enough to admit that sometimes I just find myself alone & essentially “open” the flood gates and allow myself to feel. I don’t throw things or hurt myself or even dance around like a lunatic, no I just bow my head and let the tears come. It usually doesn’t last to long but when the tears run out I always feel like a pressure has been lifted.
    Lift my head, wipe my eyes, back on to whatever I was doing before.

  7. ElegantMankey Avatar

    Working out, therapy, going on walks with myself, doing something I love

  8. Hrekires Avatar

    I find that writing things down helps me organize and process shit

  9. FoppyDidNothingWrong Avatar

    I make exercise my “shrink session.” I think of everything on my mind while walking, running, and lifting weights. When I’m done I’m ready to move on or ready to cope. The whole act of exercise pretty much tells you you’re going to get your answer quick or it’s going to take time.

  10. VladTheBanned Avatar

    By helping people. I don’t do it out of altruism or generosity, I do it for myself – it just makes me feel better. 

  11. DreadfulRauw Avatar

    Worrying too much about others knowing is part of what’s unhealthy.

  12. EngineeringUnique897 Avatar

    Bottle them up as much as possible has worked for me so far

  13. warm_fox- Avatar

    Working out is always the best way for me to release all the stress of life, and it’s a great fuel to lift heavier than before.

    I work in customer service. _.

  14. iLoveAllTacos Avatar

    I bottle it up and put it on a shelf until I can get to the gym and let it out.

  15. Impossible-Tackle935 Avatar

    Journaling, gym, and telling everyone I’m just tired.

  16. mouses555 Avatar

    Gym and boxing yep

  17. songwind Avatar

    I’m not sure making sure no one else knows about your emotions is healthy, bro.

  18. fronkinstein Avatar

    ChatGPT. I tell it whatever is troubling me and it offers some pretty damn good advice, options, coping strategies, etc. it also remembers everything so I knows your history and where you’re coming from, stuff like that. It’s really helps me often.

  19. 028XF3193 Avatar

    Keep it to myself and hope nothing unravels it. Like today, wish I could just say fuck it and quit my job. I can’t though and finding a new one will be nearly impossible.

  20. Paxton_415 Avatar

    I either stay stoic, or either if I’m lucky enough to be in a mood of when I feel indifferent. It doesn’t feel bad I just feel neutral

  21. CoachBob19 Avatar

    Breath work and gym sweat

  22. HealnMee Avatar

    Breaths, purposeful sustained rhythmic breaths

  23. MastodontFarmer Avatar

    You don’t. You find people you love and trust and share your emotions with them.