Men who date multiple women before becoming exclusive with one, how does it happen and how do you decide which one?
Men who date multiple women before becoming exclusive with one, how does it happen and how do you decide which one?
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Men who date multiple women before becoming exclusive with one, how does it happen and how do you decide which one?
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I went on a date with about 4 girls between my now wife’s first and second date.
First date went really well, after the second date I called it off with the other girls.
My wife was the smartest, the hottest, and most aligned with my core beliefs, it was easy to decide to be with her compared to the others
It kind of happens naturally. When you get closer with one, the others automatically distance themselves. Then slowly fade away until you’re left with just that one.
Then when your relationship ends, you punch yourself in the face for choosing the wrong one.
Like a Pokémon trainer… you date a few, see which one evolves into a Charizard, and hope the rest don’t block you on Instagram.
girl here- if he’s dating multiple women it’s usually because he knows none of them are the one.
I never met a man who didn’t drop his snapchat roto on a dime when they got the first inkling someone great was coming along.
If ur in this situation, just some unsolicited advice, get out before you get more attached. His commitment abilities have 99.9% to do with him, and there’s very little in your power to influence that. Don’t let anyone feel like you aren’t enough to be chosen 😉
I’ve done it in the past. I’ve since realized I much prefer one gal at a time. I’m not in my 20s and don’t have the energy to carry two convos at once haha
I assume the first step is being attractive.