So, my SO had surgery recently, and I, his biological dad, and his mom were there. From the start, she insisted on being the one to stay overnight with him (even though he explicitly said he wanted ME to stay). His biological dad actually told me privately he was planning to stay so she would leave and I could be the one staying, but she realized what was happening and it turned into a screaming match right next to my recently operated boyfriend.
On the day of the surgery, she didn’t let him rest at all. She made him take calls from family, had a bunch of people visit him, and -get this- there were clowns who came into his hospital room. He said “no thank you,” but she insisted they come in anyway. Then she recorded him reacting to the clowns while he was in the bathroom… naked after surgery. She wanted to post the video on her fucking Facebook.
She brought him food and fed him herself but wouldn’t let me stay by his side. She kept talking to him despite him wanting to sleep, and it all felt so reckless and disrespectful. The next morning, she showed up at 7 AM and woke him up again. When he got home, she drove recklessly and hit bumps on the road. Then, while he was supposed to be resting from core surgery, she forced him to get up and go downstairs to greet grandma, who honestly didn’t care.
I’m just so angry and frustrated. I didn’t want to post anything today but here we are.