My sister (23f) and I (24m) are really close. We’re basically best friends, and her best girlfriend (also 23f) and I have hung out a lot over the past 5 years or so. She and I have never really been single at the same time but now we are, and she and I have definitely gotten closer. I’ve noticed she and I naturally flirt quite a bit and at first I thought it was just us being newly single and a bit lonely, but it seems to be evolving into some feelings at least based on what I feel for her.
What I’m anxious about is mostly that the idea of becoming romantic with now her feels a bit awkward to me. I just think she’s really cute and I love her personality… once I realized that I felt this way I couldn’t unsee it. I’m just a bit anxious because she knows some things about me that I’d probably prefer a partner not to know right off the bat. Nothing too bad but it feels awkward knowing her as a close friend like this first. She’s also seen my penis a few times when Ive peed in front of her, and Ive seen her naked a handful of times since I sometimes go and hangout while she and my sister are getting ready before we go out to the bars together. The idea of going from that to intimacy feels odd to me since I’ve never done anything like it with someone before.
I don’t want to mess this up or wait too long to ask her out because I feel like there’s a chance that I’m already in the friend zone a bit… idk just want to get the anxiety off my chest I guess lol
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Screw it bro take your shot , either you she was waiting for you or you ruined your friendship both are good for you.
You have to clear this with your sister first. Her relationship with her best friend might be affected and that’s not your choice to make. She may also have info that either helps or hurts your chances. So it’s a win win before you shoot your shot.
Second is because she’s your sisters best friend you have to resolve to being an adult if things don’t work out and know you’ll never make her uncomfortable for being in your family’s life because you two weren’t a fit. That includes potentially being around someone she does fall in love with.
If you feel like you can weather all of that then go for it!
I went through this once too bro even though i got rejected i never had the “what if feeling” and honestly once i’m in my deathbed i never want to have any regrets 🤷🏽♂️ you got only one life so take risks at times
She watches you pee and you watch your sister and her change clothes to go out?? What in the pornhub..