When men say a woman was a “dead fish” in bed, is that essentially the same thing as a pillow princess? Aka a woman that only receives, and is very subdued in bed?

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When men say a woman was a “dead fish” in bed, is that essentially the same thing as a pillow princess? Aka a woman that only receives, and is very subdued in bed?

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  1. No_Constant_1274 Avatar

    And like, non responsive. Theoretically I believe a pillow princess could be quite responsive still. Dead fish just lies there

  2. SignificantZombie729 Avatar

    We call them “sacks of tatties” (potatoes) in Scotland.

  3. DotAffectionate87 Avatar

    Not quite, a pillow princess expects to be “serviced” and doesn’t reciprocate or its done with an eye roll.

    Deadfish is someone just lying there, counting down until its over and expresses no emotion or enjoyment.

  4. bill_n_opus Avatar

    I don’t know … Lemme ask my wife and see what her answer is …

  5. english_mike69 Avatar

    No.

    A dead fish just lays there. The pillow princess just wants to recieve, mostly oral and no sex, but is often vocal and changes position based upon where she wants the tongue…

  6. js1593 Avatar

    No. It means they brutally murdered them, left their body to rot and develop a fishy odor and then had sex with the corpse

    /s

  7. Guillotine-Wit Avatar

    It’s usually because the worm is too small to whet the fish’s appetite.

  8. autisticlittlefreak Avatar

    god i wish people would learn about the term pillow princess. it’s a lesbian term. you all sound ridiculous, it’s like a straight woman calling herself a “bottom”.

    pillow princess is a term for women who have sex with other women and choose to only receive pleasure, generally because they’re with a partner who only chooses to give. straight sex doesn’t work that way (unless the dude is just terrible)

  9. Equivalent_Papaya893 Avatar

    Pillow princess just lays on her back.

    Dead fish isn’t breathing.

  10. figsslave Avatar

    Aka starfish

  11. NoFunny3627 Avatar

    I think the pillow princess is into it, others put it much better than i can.

    While the ‘dead fish’ is often an issue of not reading nonverbal cues with a partner who is not having fun. As someone who has a lot of trauma, I’ve definitely checked out of my body when not feeling safe.

  12. Thunderplant Avatar

    Nah completely different. Pillow princess partners like to be pampered and pleasured, but they are usually quite expressive about this. Tbh, the dynamic being described is probably pretty rare in straight relationships because it generally implies the giving partner isn’t getting off at all

    Dead fish is someone who isn’t actively engaging with sex — not using their body, not vocalizing, just not actively contributing the experience