What should I do
Me (21 F/femm) and my gf (22/soft masc) we don’t talk much lately we barely have one decent conversation and it’s bothering me a lot, our uni give us 10 days break she went with her family to their relatives in different country (we still have the same time zone)
she sleeps most of the day then spends time with them when it’s night time she talks to me for 10 minutes then she spends the rest of the night with her cousins and i cry myself to sleep she reply to me texts like every other hour and the problem is this is not the first time she do this every time she travels she do this and I talked her and she told me she will work on it and guess what ..
nothing has changed also me and her before the break been planning to go out but we couldn’t and i was okay with it but then she told me we can go out later after she comes back and i was happy until she invited our friends to come to. I don’t remember a one time me and her went out alone.i was sad and she kept saying that we will go out alone when uni starts and I got mad because most of our hangouts and meetups are uni I feel like im in elementary school relationship
there’s one thing more and please excuse me for the transparency but im seeking advice because I don’t know what to do she hasn’t touched me for a month and im really irritated like sometimes i think she doesn’t put me as priority as i do
I always keep her satisfied I change the things that upset her but I don’t get the same thing i feel like im been ignored and whenever i get sad she gets sad and i need to comfort her I don’t really what to do one time i was sad and im crying she kept asking me why im crying and I didn’t know why really she threw water bottle on the chair and other time same situation she started screaming at me.
We been together for almost 3.5 years. I don’t know what to do I really love and I don’t anyone but her but i need advice because I can’t keep crying every night