hey team, im in a relationship and he has been watching porn (not often please dont comment on him watching it while in a relationship) and he says he never remembers who hes watched because it doesnt matter he just needs to get one off wuickly and would typically go for front page, wven if he watched it a day ago? he doesnt remember???? 🤔 is this true? do men actually want to fuck pornstars or pursue relations with these woman? he has me and i dont know why i dont feel good enough for him if he needs to watch these woman. he says its never the face and its only ever the body which makes me feel better but even then i still just dont feel good enough for him.. so my question is, when you watch porn do you actually want to fuck the pornstars? or if you came across them in person would ya go for it? this may sound confusing and im severely dyslexic so i hope someone can understand what im trying to say. im feeling a bit insecure about these girls and i dont know if i should make it a big problem or not, he watches all kinda of girls. not a specific race or type, which if it were id be more concerned. let me know what you think, should i feel jealous of these girls? or are they nothing but a nut aid at the end of the day and you forget about them the next.
he has admitted to getting of to insta girls too, simply from convenience. hes horny and scrolling reels and one pops up. and he says he doesnt acknowledge or remember anything about the girls after he does it.. tbh i feel like hes lying but i really dont know.. please be nice, im not goinf to leave him i ust want to know if men who watch porn in relationships imagine doing it with other woman instead of their partner
edit: he is not addicted and watches it once every like 6-10 months.. its just happened again recently hense why im a little insecure but i typically get over it, its just fresh thats all! please be kind
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Not at all. It’s just “watch sex” until you finish, then walk away in disgust.
Yo Kate, why you expose me here??
Jokes aside, I do feel like I want it. But given the opportunity to, I guess I wouldn’t take it.
Whether he remembers the girl(s), check his Saved contents, if there are a shit load of girls, chances are he doesn’t remember most of them. If there are only 3-4 girls, watch out.
Not really a big porn watcher but I can tell you that I have never felt any sort of attachment or desire to have anything to do with the person in the video. It’s simply an aid to get to the end faster. Once you’re done that’s it. You’re not thinking about them in any capacity.
Speaking out of pure personal experience, rubbing one out it’s just a necessary activity at times. The content used hardly matters, you just use it and discard it (hence the difference between this and actual sex). I do believe that if anybody pays for content or just does it a couple of times a day everyday, then there are serious problems.
Idk, watching porn in a relationship is weird no matter. many guys cheat cus they are just horny and don’t want the girl it’s still wrong no matter what
Nope, I just find it hard to get off to football games. I can, It’s just hard
The vast majority of every human who has ever lived has masturbated. I’m willing to bet good money that cavemen masturbated to some damn cave paintings lol.
I’ve been married for 10 years and even my wife will watch porn sometimes to get one off. People masturbate for different reasons. Sometimes it’s cause ur horny, sometimes it’s cause ur bored, fuck sometimes I do it to fall asleep faster. Thing is, porn (for most people) is just a medium – a means to an end – and nothing else.
It has absolutely nothing to do with you ‘not being enough for him’. He is just doing what the majority of every human has done.
Hope this helps.
If hes horny and your not there, its always better that he watches a video and jerks off and gets it out of his system, instead of talking to other girls to line something up in real life.
Pro porn star types look and act so fake that no, not really.
Porn is a fantasy, remember that. Also, you can watch regular movies or TV shows, and after watching a movie/show with a hot actress, you can go to your bedroom or bathroom and jerk off. While jerking off you fantasize about the woman in the porno, yes, of course. But mostly, you think not of trying to be with that woman but only what it must feel like. And that fantasy is solely to make yourself cum. Nothing more. And after you cum, you close your browser, clean yourself up and move on until the next time. Remember that masturbation for both men and women is good. If your boyfriend’s masturbation is bothering you, then I’d suggest building up your confidence and masturbating yourself. It will not make you blind.
Female here, hope my input is welcome!
The IG models is what would piss me off.
Porn though, I could care less. So long as it’s not constant. I tell my man I don’t care. Masturbation is normal, and healthy in moderation.
I watch it too sometimes. I’m more so into the girls when it comes to porn though, but either way I don’t think about any of the porn stars after. It’s all just fantasy for a quick moment and that’s it.