I got married in November 2022. My grandmother passed away shortly after, while battling cancer. My son was born in August 2023. From early in the marriage, my wife showed signs of emotional volatility — manipulation, mental harassment, resistance to cooperation. Despite my efforts, she distanced herself and eventually left for childbirth, never to return.
What came instead were false cases: dowry harassment, domestic violence. I was shattered. I remember sitting with a meal, unable to tell if it was lunch or dinner. My health deteriorated. Hair fell out. I disconnected from everything.
But I pulled myself out. Rejoined my family. Faced the legal battle. Tried, even then, to reconcile — but she refused. I gave her divorce late last year. I’ve barely seen my son since his birth — only once briefly in a police station. I’ve now chosen to sacrifice that bond to protect my family from more false traps.
I’m rebuilding. Focusing on my health, my character, my spiritual growth. And I want to marry again — intentionally, not impulsively. I’m open to healing, learning, and being a better man. Ask me anything — I’ll answer with honesty.
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Are you gay or bi?
Had a very similar thing happen to me.. except it was my dad who passed away in the middle of it all & his 3rd wife still trying to screw us out of inheritance. My ex lied to prevent me seeing my daughter, saying I was a drug addict (not true). I spent hundreds of thousands on lawyers to get her back and finally will be seeing her more regularly after more than a year in court. I wrote about how I am getting through it in this post https://www.reddit.com/r/Semenretention/s/4V5Sjs6sWz
How did the cases go?
So many questions, but I’ll start with, if you went through divorce and legal battle, how have you barely seen your son?
What part of the world are you in?
And what is the significance of mentioning your grandmother dying?
Still have like 7 other questions, but those are a good start.