Has anyone ever done mediation and had enmeshment pointed out to their kids dad? I’m doing mediation soon and curious to know if they’ll point out his issues with his mother. Google says they’re allowed and I know it’s gonna be an obvious issue so wondering can they say it to him?
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Just curious mediation for divorce? If then details, copious amounts of documented details.
Even if not going through a divorce, maybe your SO might see the light if there is documented evidence support as if you were going to present it to a judge.
If she starts pulling crap, sending in flying monkeys and such, then threaten to put the evidence online for all to see and wait for her reaction.
Preferably, the evidence needs to be very well organized with dates and times.
This helps in mediation and keeps “her truth or feelings” from mucking up the proceedings.
You can always pull the recollections may vary statement.
Stay calm and collected. Narcs usually pull out their tears when they don’t get their way.
I hope everything goes your way.
Unfortunately, I think there are limits on what we can share when it comes to a legal dispute on this subreddit. You might want to post in the family law subreddit.