I recently broke up with my ex boyfriend of 3 years. It was a pretty serious relationship. There were times where I felt so bad I wanted to break up. But I never did, because, there were also times where I would think to myself how lucky I was to have him, and how he was treating me so nicely. One day, I found out he was cheating on me for monhts, with multiple women. I had no idea, and there wasn’t a single sign. I left him on the spot, and then it started. He started playing the victim, saying he wanted to k*ll himself, proclaiming his “love” to me. I’m just now starting to realize just how manipulative he is. The scary part is, he not only had me convinced, but my whole family and my friends. Everyone loved him, and thought he was an amazing guy. I never thought he was capable of doing this. And that terrifies me. How good he was at hiding his true character. He was extremely supportive of me throughout the hardest part of my life, that by the time he started being manipulative, I had already trusted him and didn’t realize what he was doing.