What was the context? What she in your same social circle so you had to see her frequently? Was she a coworker you still had to see constantly even after the fact? What was the most difficult time you’ve had getting over a girl?
Mine was a coworker, a very popular one at that. One you could barely avoid, one you couldn’t not hear about from other people. Still going through that personal hell rn because we both still work together but I’m a soldier, I’ll get over that shit with time. Need some stories to relate to in the meantime though.
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What was the context? What she in your same social circle so you had to see her frequently? Was she a coworker you still had to see constantly even after the fact? What was the most difficult time you’ve had getting over a girl?
Mine was a coworker, a very popular one at that. One you could barely avoid, one you couldn’t not hear about from other people. Still going through that personal hell rn because we both still work together but I’m a soldier, I’ll get over that shit with time. Need some stories to relate to in the meantime though.
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One of my first long term-girlfriends. Just on account of me being young (17-19).
Now twenty years later I give zero shits after a break up.
Same coworker here sadly
6 year relationship. Almost 3 years since we broke up. I’m pretty much over her but can’t be in another relationship with anyone. Just hooking up with everyone and going to the next person as soon as they get too attached.
I don’t. I try once and if I get a no I move on. I don’t try until after I get to know them a bit, but a no is a no. And a no means move on.
I actually have 2 and they’re both embarrassing.
1.
Childhood friend that lived a few house down who I ended up developing a crush on. Summer after graduation we hungout all day by ourselves and ended up making out that night. I was so happy thinking we were going to date. 2 days later she ends up in a relationship with this douchebag that she apparently “hated” all through schooling. I was shattered.
2.
(More embarrassing)
Was a girl when I was in my early 20s. (Also knew her since childhood due to her parents being family friends.) Dated about 10 months to her wanting “space”. Gave her “space” and she removes me on social media and changes her relationship status from me to another guy. She occasionally would reach out to ghost and repeat for close to a year as well. I really beat myself up over it and took me while to get over it.
Well a few years later we cross paths again. Somehow she convinces my dumb ass to take her back (after turning her down initially).
Don’t even make it a full month and decides to invite an ex over and bang him while im at work. Ironic since she was so persistent about me breaking off ties with exes.
I dump her immediately. However I try to be the bigger person by keeping my cool. No yelling name calling or anything. Tell her we’re done, leave her place and block before I even get in my car.
I didnt feel bad at all. It was a huge relief actually.
Then she decides to post me all over social media claiming I beat her and all these other lies. Good riddance.
My first serious girlfriend was very difficult to get over.
Not only was it because it was my first serious relationship, but it was also because she was so hot that I didn’t think I would ever land someone like that again.
My second long term relationship I didn’t dwell on much post break up though. Partly because I initiated it, and partly because I lost attraction to her after 3.5 years together. I just felt like an asshole admitting the second part to myself though.
My ex. It’s been 4 years now.
My recent ex. I thought she was sweet, caring, understanding, loyal, honest and really loved me but I found out in the end she was none of those things. In fact she’s a very cruel person and a liar. And it still hurts almost a year later.
A long, agonising, long-distance relationship with a very beautiful, very intoxicating, very charismatic woman, who was also pathologically incapable of being faithful or honest. We were both working in high stress environments and would meet up every few months for wildly romantic, once-in-a-lifetime breaks together in exotic places, where we would profess our undying love for each other, get drunk, eat amazing food, take amazing drugs, have a lot of mind blowing sex, play house for a week or two, and make vague plans to finally settle down together which she could never quite commit to. Then we would fly back to our separate lives, where she would find someone else and I would pretend it wasn’t happening again. It went on for years, became more and more toxic, angry and desperate, until finally it fizzled out and she moved on with the last guy she cheated on me with. It was honestly the greatest sense of relief I’ve ever felt when it was finally over and I was able to cut her out of my life like a cancer, but it left me so emotionally spent and so broken that it took a very long time to recover from. Years really.