Married fathers, how much time do you spend with your wife alone on an average day?

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Just the two of you, outside of the bed/bedroom….how much couple time is normal for your relationship?

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  1. KronktheKronk Avatar

    like, 30-45 mins before the kids are in bed, then 0-2 hours after.

  2. NoSpankingAllowed Avatar

    Our child is out of the house and we spend 90% of our day together.

    Before that, when she was still working, and he was little we had a few hours every night. That time increased as he got older. Now we do most everything together

  3. Gold_Telephone_7192 Avatar

    We both work from home so we’re around each other all day, although usually not able to really spend quality time together. Enough to hang out a bit and have some conversations though, which is nice. Then our kid goes to bed at around 7 and we have another 2-3 hours together until my wife goes to bed. It sounds like more than it feels like lol

  4. cinefilestu Avatar

    All our kids are under 3. 

    About 2 hours total a day. 

  5. porkchopsambo Avatar

    So very little I can’t even quantify
    We dont have relatives near for baby sitting so it’s just us but we don’t ever get just us time
    In the evenings maybe cuddle pass out of the couch.

  6. chuteboxehero Avatar

    Less than I spend with my kids.

  7. kostros Avatar

    Before kids: 2h a day easily, frequently much more

    During first year of being parents: we struggle to have 15min of „us time without out son” every day