Security (physical, financial, emotional, etc) for my family would be top of my list. After that, the list gets very nebulous very quickly. I value an excellent meal. I value works of art. I value a good round of golf. A good BJ. A nice sit on a quiet park bench on a beautiful day. The usual things, really.
Having met many different men in my life. We are all different.
Its hard to sum up the things I value, but a couple of things would be: respect, communication, empathy, and living life/recreation, individuality and teamwork.
There is no collectivly for such a large group of people. You’re talking about 50% of the planet. A lot of values are gonna be wildly different across that specter.
Peace, stability, the feeling that we’re contributing to something (whether it be a relationship, society, family etc.) and recognized and respected for our contribution, being desired sexually, feeling we’re up to whatever challenge we’re facing. I think those are all pretty universal regardless of culture or background.
Outside of basic human necessities it depends on the culture worldwide, men are not a monolith, we come from all sorts of cultural attitudes which will influence what we value
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You know we don’t share a hive brain right? So how on earth would we collectively value something?
Basics met, solid support system, know their enough, working towards that.
Food, shelter, water. Outside of that every guy is a little different.
You’re not going to get a one size fits all answer, but for me personally, peace and quiet is the goal.
Family
Being treated with respect. Tired of all the anti men bollocks those people need to GTFO
Empathy and trustworthiness and love and support. And art and sex and music and food.. And nature and sports… And probably a bunch of other stuff lol
Humility, protecting animals.
Security (physical, financial, emotional, etc) for my family would be top of my list. After that, the list gets very nebulous very quickly. I value an excellent meal. I value works of art. I value a good round of golf. A good BJ. A nice sit on a quiet park bench on a beautiful day. The usual things, really.
Providing for the people we love and being remembered as a good man when we’re gone
Nothing. There is absolutely nothing even 90% of guys would agree on.
Peace
Most straight men value pussy, most gay men value ass. So I guess men value sex.
Having met many different men in my life. We are all different.
Its hard to sum up the things I value, but a couple of things would be: respect, communication, empathy, and living life/recreation, individuality and teamwork.
Not having things be more difficult than they should be
Honesty
There is no collectivly for such a large group of people. You’re talking about 50% of the planet. A lot of values are gonna be wildly different across that specter.
Men value playing Yakuza 4
Self love
Peace, and calm.
Obviously loyalty and respect too.
I much rather have the above than love. It’s so damn rare to find a woman who understands this.
Peace and quiet.
Peace, stability, the feeling that we’re contributing to something (whether it be a relationship, society, family etc.) and recognized and respected for our contribution, being desired sexually, feeling we’re up to whatever challenge we’re facing. I think those are all pretty universal regardless of culture or background.
Personal? Trust and integrity.
Unfortunately men aren’t a single culture so that is not always the case for some.
Respect, Silence, Understanding or at least empathy of ones condition, Earnest work, Honesty, small emotional gestures like hugs.
Loyalty, and honesty.
My free time, happiness, professionalism, quality and myself.
Peace (Cooperation).
Honest competition and straight actionable information.
Adequate authority to live up to and fair rewards for the responsibilities we ought to take.
Outside of basic human necessities it depends on the culture worldwide, men are not a monolith, we come from all sorts of cultural attitudes which will influence what we value
Probably the same stuff women do.