Tonight I was falling asleep with my boyfriend and we were cuddling (naked) and my period just came out of nowhere and went all over his leg; out of nowhere he just punched me in the face and broke my nose; Ive been to hospital and the whole time he has been saying sorry and basically crying and waiting on me hand and foot; i dont know what to do because I’m from New Zealand and have only been in Aussie for 3
Months and really don’t know what to do; he told me it was just a reaction but I’m worried he could hurt me again for no reason.
wtf to do.
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No, leave him ASAP wym he punched you because of your period😭
Do not go back to that.. whatever tf you do. Jesus
brooooooo RUNNNN it is such a red flag he fucking BROKE your nose and now youre in the hospital just tell him to fuck off
Leave him , he done it once he will do it again, he should be understanding, not punching….just saying! H
This is messed up. What the hell? That is not an okay reaction to that at all. Maybe if he just said “ew” we can look past that. Dump this guy, now.
That is no excuse for him to lay a hand on you. You need to leave.
Your boyfriend’s behavior is inexcusable. That is obvious and that is what everyone will say, and you have every right to be angry and confused, and concerned that he might hurt you again.
Given that your options here might be limited, if you do not mind me asking: how do you feel about the fact that he is remorseful and waiting on you hand and foot?
Have you asked him to explain to you why he did what he did, and has he actually made a serous attempt to explain himself… other than to say it was “just a reaction”?
He DID hurt you for no reason!!!!! What the hell?!?? Get TF OUT OF THERE ASAP!!!!!!
NOPE!!!!!!!!
This is abuse. It’s not your fault
Call 1800RESPECT or 000 if you’re in danger get somewhere safe you deserve better
Sis, you gotta seriously evaluate your interactions and his response to situations. For him to respond with such physical violence is in no way acceptable. Check your notes: happens once, could be an honest mistake ins moment with a bad reaction; happens twice, it was a decision. Happens 3x, you have a pattern of behavior that is not safe for you. What else has happened in your relationship? Have there been other examples of rough, gruff, physical behavior… like does he grab you? Does he get upset easily? You have got to protect yourself and this might not be the only incident to inform your decision to get out.
Violent tendency wont go away nor can he control it when necessary
why is everyone jumping into conclusions so fast. what if it really was an accident, he didn’t mean it and he is sorry and worried, because he obviously is?