Hello,
Just wanted to hear other men’s perspective on the matter.Let’s say your girlfriend or someone you’re dating who adores jewelry and was gifted by her male colleague an Anklet, while she already has a golden Anklet that she wears daily, she now wears this new one to her Ankle as well.
how would you feel about that ? Is it a bit disrespectful for you seeing another man’s jwery on her ? Or it’s normal and nothing to make about ?
How would you feel abou this gesture ?
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Its a gift.
If they’re good friends why would I care?
Unless I have any red flags about their relationship I wouldn’t mind.
It depends, more context is needed. I feel like there’s a lot to this story that’s missing.
Was it given to her while she was already with you? Maybe I’m overly possessive but that would bother me.
Unless he’s a gay BFF, a dude buying a woman jewelry wants to fuck her.
Yep, I would take it as a disrespect.
I’m married to my assistant. There was a time when she worked for me and I was buying her jewelry.
It’s not about the jewelry, it’s about the gesture. Why is this man giving you jewelry unless he’s hoping to steal you away? You must know this.
That is blatantly disrespectful. Unless this guy is a gay friend or something, where there is NO WAY he’s trying to swoop in, that it is absolutely out-of-line to offer another man’s wife or girlfriend such an expensive gift, and if she actually wears it she’s signaling interest or at the very least acceptance of this.
100% disrespectful on both parties. Just leave your dude if you’re wanting this kind of attention from other men.
Go and buy and anklet together?
This depends entirely on the type of marriage or relationship between the couple.
I can’t imagine a scenario where my wife accepts jewellery from another man.
I would assume she’s at least having an emotional affair with her colleague
LOL. Yes, it would bother me. I can’t IMAGINE buying a woman I work with an anklet. The fact that she loves it and wears it tells you all you need to know. They’re fucking or they’re building up to it. She either doesn’t care about you or she’s making sure you’re cool with it.
Completely unacceptable. Do you want your BF buying gifts for the women he works with?