I bartended at one for a couple of years. I won’t date men who like to hang out there. If I were dating someone and they really pushed to go there, we would not be dating anymore after that. If a man wants other half naked women to hang all over him, he can have them but I won’t be hanging on him half naked anymore. My experience has been that the men who like strip clubs don’t respect women.
Used to work at a strip club as a dancer. Personally? It’s more fun to dress up in a wig and cute outfits for my partner and more fun to go with my girlfriends to a strip club, have fun, and go home to my partner. That’s just me though 🤷♀️
Girls supporting girls is a fun way to spend the night and the ladies to enjoy it. It’s fun to tip them and it’s fun getting tipped by a bunch of women and it makes the atmosphere more fun!
In my experience, you usually have to call the club ahead of time to get permission to go since they do have to worry about the safety of the women at the club. You’d be surprised how many times women try to go into a club just to corner a girl instead of being pissed at her own husband or boyfriend… 🤦♀️
My husband and I go together from time to time. I’m straight but I still enjoy watching them dance. To me, it literally like watching dance performances although obviously very provocative. We always have a good time.
I’ve never been to one. Have always been interested in seeing what a male strip club would entail tho lol. My SO said he’s been to one when it was one of his friend’s 18th bday, but he wasn’t really interested and didn’t get the point of it because “why would you want to be teased then basically blue balled” LOL
I’ve never gone with my partner but I’ve seen a lot of pole dancing (the sensual kind) and it is one of these most stunning and athletic things I’ve ever witnessed. My jaw was on the ground the whole time. I would gladly watch with him.
Sure. I’ve been to strip shows where men were dancing and he has been the ones where the dancers are women. But neither of us is bisexual so it doesn’t seem like it would be fun to either one of us to go with each other. A ah we have the rule if you can see all you want but it you touch then consider yourself single. So if he wants to go that’s fine but if I’m going to spend my money I want it to be on something fun. I am also I’m lucky enough that now that he is older he has no interest in going to a place where he was to pay to be teased but that’s all her gets, his words no mine”
One thing would be to visit a swinger club as a couple. There we would have fun together and ideally both go home satisfied.
What am I supposed to do in a strip club? Look at 18-20 yo kids who are too poor to afford college have to sell their looks and hopefully not more to give disgusting men who could be their fathers a boner? No thank you
I did it once and it totally wasn’t my thing, and I’m even into girls. The whole atmosphere was kinda hostile, like the vibe some of the dancers gave me. I was so feeling out of place.
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I’ve never been as not so common in rural UK.
But I would go, just to be nosy
My SO does not go to strip clubs, and I have never had a desire to do so.
I bartended at one for a couple of years. I won’t date men who like to hang out there. If I were dating someone and they really pushed to go there, we would not be dating anymore after that. If a man wants other half naked women to hang all over him, he can have them but I won’t be hanging on him half naked anymore. My experience has been that the men who like strip clubs don’t respect women.
We’ve never been to one. I have no interest and am sure I wouldn’t like it.
Used to work at a strip club as a dancer. Personally? It’s more fun to dress up in a wig and cute outfits for my partner and more fun to go with my girlfriends to a strip club, have fun, and go home to my partner. That’s just me though 🤷♀️
Girls supporting girls is a fun way to spend the night and the ladies to enjoy it. It’s fun to tip them and it’s fun getting tipped by a bunch of women and it makes the atmosphere more fun!
In my experience, you usually have to call the club ahead of time to get permission to go since they do have to worry about the safety of the women at the club. You’d be surprised how many times women try to go into a club just to corner a girl instead of being pissed at her own husband or boyfriend… 🤦♀️
My husband and I go together from time to time. I’m straight but I still enjoy watching them dance. To me, it literally like watching dance performances although obviously very provocative. We always have a good time.
I’ve never been to one. Have always been interested in seeing what a male strip club would entail tho lol. My SO said he’s been to one when it was one of his friend’s 18th bday, but he wasn’t really interested and didn’t get the point of it because “why would you want to be teased then basically blue balled” LOL
I’ve never gone with my partner but I’ve seen a lot of pole dancing (the sensual kind) and it is one of these most stunning and athletic things I’ve ever witnessed. My jaw was on the ground the whole time. I would gladly watch with him.
Sure. I’ve been to strip shows where men were dancing and he has been the ones where the dancers are women. But neither of us is bisexual so it doesn’t seem like it would be fun to either one of us to go with each other. A ah we have the rule if you can see all you want but it you touch then consider yourself single. So if he wants to go that’s fine but if I’m going to spend my money I want it to be on something fun. I am also I’m lucky enough that now that he is older he has no interest in going to a place where he was to pay to be teased but that’s all her gets, his words no mine”
Yes but we only go for the food. The strip clubs here are like actual restaurants. There’s one that has the best lamb chops I’ve ever had.
One thing would be to visit a swinger club as a couple. There we would have fun together and ideally both go home satisfied.
What am I supposed to do in a strip club? Look at 18-20 yo kids who are too poor to afford college have to sell their looks and hopefully not more to give disgusting men who could be their fathers a boner? No thank you
I did it once and it totally wasn’t my thing, and I’m even into girls. The whole atmosphere was kinda hostile, like the vibe some of the dancers gave me. I was so feeling out of place.
No.