How would you react to a kiss on the cheek on a date?

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How would you react to a kiss on the cheek on a date?

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  1. So_Call_Me_Maddie Avatar

    I’m fine with it, but I’m used to a kiss on the cheek as a greeting.

  2. celestialism Avatar

    Like anything, it depends a lot on the context (who’s kissing me? what’s our rapport like? am I attracted to them? is it a good kiss? etc.) but I have no issue with cheek kisses. They’re often a good middle ground when you want to express affection but haven’t reached the level of kissing each other on the mouth yet.

  3. Zora_Lynn_86 Avatar

    I appreciate it.

  4. shelly_seafunk Avatar

    The depends VERY much on the overall situation. I might smile, I might look puzzled, I might counter it with a french kiss

  5. baebgle Avatar

    Depends. As a greeting it’s cute. If you’re younger it’s cute. If the person seems shy I find that adorable!

  6. Individualchaotin Avatar

    Is he French, Italian, or asked for consent?

  7. SaltyIsabella Avatar

    I’d take it as a good sign. Not too much, not too little… Just enough to show interest without pressure.

  8. _angelcore_ Avatar

    Weird. If the date didnt go well, hug and bye. If it went well, full kiss. I’m an adult.

  9. Bruiserzinha Avatar

    Normal way to introduce yourself around here so, whatever

  10. Ruckus292 Avatar

    I think it depends on where you’re from truly….

    I’m from Europe and this is a custom. But US friends seem to be caught off guard, Canadians are mixed it just depends on the person.

  11. taylortriesadulthood Avatar

    personally I think it’s cute. if I like the person I think it’s a great way to make it clear they’re interested without being too pushy. if I don’t like the person, it doesn’t feel like they crossed boundaries.

    however, I have an affectionate family who hug/kiss cheeks all the time. someone who comes from a more reserved family may feel differently!

  12. No-Dragonfly3189 Avatar

    If I’m into them, I’d probably smile like an idiot and try not to blush.
    If I’m not, I’d awkwardly laugh and pretend to check my phone 😅

  13. luvlyemmaa Avatar

    probably blush, smile like an idiot and forget how to speak for a sec 🙃

  14. sotiredwontquit Avatar

    Depends on the context cues. If I’ve been flirty and I initiated other touches in some way, then I’d likely enjoy it. If I haven’t reached out once? Don’t touch me, yet. We’re not at that point.

  15. TriGurl Avatar

    Probably the same way as when I got a kiss on the forehead. I thought it was sweet and enduring and tender. 🙂

  16. Tiny_Jumping_Beans Avatar

    I’m in the US. I would need to be asked for consent first. Mostly cause if you come in that close and idk what you’re aiming for, I might react foolishly. I have a “idk what to do with my hands” personality in awkward situations, especially when I want to make a good impression. A heads up and I think a cheek kiss is cute. A heads up, and I might just say “how about a real one?”

  17. Indigo-Waterfall Avatar

    It depends on so many factors and context.

  18. tinfoilhattie Avatar

    Depends on the context, our relationship, the current conversation, whether we’ve both consented, etc.

    At some points on some dates it would be very welcome. At other points on some dates it would be very unwelcome.