Well, today started out rough with my son peeing yet again for the millionth time through a Huggies diaper (I’ve sized up, I’ve used booster pads) and then he was up from 4:45 onward. So I asked my husband, “can I please have an hour of alone time outside of the house today?” That hasn’t happened in two months. But I really just wanted to go to a park and disassociate for a little bit. Anyways, he’s almost done with work and he says “my parents will be over at 4.” And I said…. “What?” He said to our son “yeah mommy’s gonna leave us later and have time to herself.” And then I knew, I would not have time to myself.
You see, my son is four months old. He will only contact nap, mostly on me in the baby carrier. And his nap time started right as they would be coming over SO I decided that I would not be leaving the house bc my sons sleep and for the sake of bedtime (which I am only able to do bc son says so). So I was pissed. I told my husband “I only want your parents to visit once a week.”
So, his parents show up and my blood pressure is always a little high around them. My husband started getting snippy with me right before they came over bc he forgot which date our sons baptism was (it’s in four months from now so over half of his life away LOL). He proceeded to ask me if I was going to send out the invitations (in august FFS).
Anyways, my in laws take the baby as they come over and we direct them to sit on the couch with him as my in laws are not really steady. My JNMIL cradle holds my son who is exclusively breast fed and he goes in for the teet (great). My JNMIL says “I think he wants my boobs!” Now my blood really started to boil. I understand this shit happens but my JNMIL is just so inappropriate. Then my son started crying and getting worked up bc it’s nap time and shes like “I think you need to feed him.” No I don’t. If I tried to feed him he would get really mad at me bc he’s overly tired and just confused.
Anyways we are contact napping upstairs while they all eat the dinner I prepared for my little family and I. But now they get to enjoy it too. I am making myself a margarita tonight and my husband can do bathtime and go fuck himself (literally he will not be getting laid anytime soon).
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