I (22) f have a 3 months old with father (26) m. We separated almost two months ago and I had found out yesterday that he has been cheating on me all throughout our relationship. About a week ago his mom reached out to me to apologize for her son not taking care of his child at all or giving me some help. During that phone call she told me sorry and asked for me to tell her everything I knew about her son and our situation. I ended up revealing a lot of lies he told her without even realizing it and she told me if I found out anything else then to let her know. A few days later I found out about the crazy cheating that was going on and I reached out to a few of our friends to ask if they knew about this. My bd did not like that and completely crashed out then he crashed out even harder when I told him mom. She called while he was crashing out and thanked me for letting her know. Well this morning she comes at me sideways telling me to stop telling people well while I was talking to friends/family I was being told he was telling everyone lies about me so I cleared my name up. She didn’t like that. She told me if I didn’t stop then she’d call Cps on me for being mentally unwell. So what should I do to prepare myself for this is she actually does it?
I had a child with a man child that needs to cry to mommy apparently
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Are you mentally unwell?. If not then don’t heed her threats
LOL, sounds like CPS threats are just her version of “playing dirty.” Keep your records, texts, calls, anything showing you’re a stable parent. Honestly, if she tries to make a move, it’ll probably blow up in her face. Stay calm and document everything.
Cps isn’t going to show up and administer mental health diagnostic assessments. They’re going to look for signs of abuse or neglect and if they don’t see those signs, they close the file.
Your MIL sounds nasty AND stupid.
I’d reach out to her VIA TEXT and call her bluff on calling CPS over your mental stability. Include anything and everything she said in your last conversation. Let her buy the rope, tie the knot and something something herself metaphorically. Now you have the first thing you show any CPS employee that shows up.