I’m a girl and I’m curious about this. I think I dress nice and clean, basic nothing special. Like I think I look pretty. But when I go out, I see girls who are so much more attractive and dress sexier than me. They look stunning! So whenever I see that I’m like “yeah she looks so much better than me, a guy will never look at me or ask me out”.
This is an insecurity I’ve always had. This has nothing to do with the girls, it’s on me. They look beautiful and dress however they want! I would never want to put another girls down just because I’m feeling insecure about myself.
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There is a line of what sexy may be on a scale of “conservative” to “street walker”.
You can still dress well and not wear an outfit that screams for attention.
Dressing well doesn’t hurt but you know what’s waaay sexier than that? Confidence.
(Not that I’d ever use a 1-10 scale to rate women but I need to make the analogy work) I’d take a confident 6-7 over a try-hard 9-10 any day
I will only date a girl that dresses conservatively. So I would look at a girl like you over a girl that is showing the world her goods.
If you want fast sex wear a mini skirt with your ass hanging out lol.
If you’re looking for an actual partner dress in a way to draws attention to your good qualities but in a subtle way
Maybe having a brighter color shirt compared to your pants.
Maybe a lighter shade lipstick and blush to bring attention(too much makes you look like an attention seeker)
Be inviting(this is the most important) if you like a guy reciprocate to any eye contact, he may make, maybe approach yourself, smile when you look at him.
The bold girls usually are sex fiends trying to have sex and the subtle girls are trying to attract someone actually interested in getting to know them.
It’s the outfit, but the confidence to wear it is what brings it all together. You can dress sexy, showing cleavage without looking like you’re letting it all hang out.
Dressing well is a good thing buy my opinion is that clothes do not make an attractive woman. The way she carries herself and the fact that she knows that she is beautiful in her unique way. Let’s be honest, a great deal of guys are just horny. But then some of us pay attention to details such as having eye contact, and her attitude and especially the way you show you want us and the fact of being interested in how we are as a person, what we like to eat, etc. As we do the same .But the way you carry yourself in a demeanor like “I know I’m a beautiful person and i’m going to wear what God gave me better than anyone else.” But of course we all know there’s a thin line between confidence and being conceited. You females do have the more organized minds . For me that is one beautiful queen. Oh yeah and we like timely responses to texts lol.
If I see a woman who I think is physically attractive dressed “sexy”, I’d be more physically attracted to her but have less interest in wanting to speak with her.
How much does dressing sexy affect how attractive guys think a girl is?
A lot if we’re talking just on pure physical attraction
It does, even girls that are 5-7 out of 10 can look really good if dressed properly.
Don’t be afraid to show some skin.
Are you sure you like men?
But also.. dress for your body type. And don’t worry about other people’s opinions..
If she’s aiming for sexy I assume she’s looking for a one night stand. If she’s well put together and has her hair done I assume she might be worth some time.
A lot.
Dressing sexy transmits also desirability, confidence, and availability.
It depends on how you carry yourself. Dressing sexy all the time can work for some, but for the most part it depends what you are doing while dressed like that. Day to day type stuff doesn’t really matter.
I tend to find casual or normal outfits more attractive than “sexy” outfits.
You either dress to impress men or dress to impress women. Rarely both.
Simplified: guys see women in two categories. For fun and for keeps. Dress for the attention you want.
Be very subtle. Nowadays racy dressing is normalized and it just makes you look like you’re dying for attention, while conveying nothing positive to men. Also, the prettier your face and sexier your body, the more this applies. Because anyone can see you are attractive and if on top of that you feel the need to be overly revealing, it screams desperation.
I can find both women who dress conservatively and women who dress extremely provocatively to be attractive.
(I’m probably in the minority though)
A lot.
I’m more attracted by women in sundress than in sexy outfit…
Not the same “purpose”.
What the fuck does dressing sexy even mean? Crop tops?
Beautiful/sexy to woman is usually not the same as it is to a guy. If you are looking at the fabric design the guys are looking at how it shapes her butt. There’s also a fine line between women dressing up where they look good vs looking cheap. Even a pair of jeans and a t-shirt can look good if they fit right. Also, having a well made up face matters just as much and it too can look beautiful and elegant or it can look trashy. Overly bright and flashy make up tends to fall into the latter. The guy will be looking at your face when he’s talking to you, not your outfit. Lastly, the most important thing about being attractive is being confident but not cocky. Be happy with yourself.
It’s about owning your femininity in your own way. Clothing helps if it reveals the girl’s personality. Of course there will be those girls who dress sexually, those attract yes, but they don`t necessary attract quality men. All in all, don`t shy away from your own femininity in your own way.
Don’t overlook the power of being balanced in what you do. Think of how you’re probably not attracted to professional body builders, and that has to do with them going to an extreme.
Many straight men agree that a sundress is one of the most attractive items of clothing a woman can wear. These dresses show some leg and the arms but aren’t usually associated with being form fitting, short or partially low cut.
An incredible amount.
For me a girl is much more attractive if she knows how to dress rather than just dressing sexy. If you know what looks good on you and what your body type is and dress according to then it is far more attractive. Yes, dressing sexy makes a difference but how you dress is more important than that.
Stop comparing yourself with other women, it’s not a competition, if you wanna dress sexier than do it.
Surely it depends on the guy. Some will specifically like it, some specifically won’t, others literally wouldn’t notice either way.
I hate to use the cliche reddit line of “all men are different” but it really applies here. If you think you look in any way pretty then there is probably not only a guy that likes that, but one that likes it better. The “girl next door” label exists for a reason.
Just realize you might not find those kind of guys in the same places. So if you are going to a club where men in tight shirts and no socks drool over other women… You might not find your man there. So don’t take their opinion as representative.