Just immediately asking and guy who he voted for before even starting a conversation

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I’m done. I don’t care. I want to know up front if you give a shit about my autonomy. If you don’t? This conversation is over, move along. I don’t care why you voted that way, what you disagree with, what your goal was, no. It is not MY responsibility to provide you a safe space in this environment. Y’all can feel oppressed for one goddamn second in your privileged ass lives.

I am not wasting my time. You’re sorry? Bummer. You regret your vote? Well, shit, I regret your vote too. Doesn’t change shit, boo. Gimme something to smile about.

Signed, a woman that’s TIRED

Comments

  1. ladykiller1020 Avatar

    Any guy* godammit

  2. plotthick Avatar

    Fuck yes and un-fuck them (removes their last good orgasm)!

  3. International_Ad2712 Avatar

    I think it’s a good idea. But I’m curious, what do you mean “provide you a safe space in this environment” is that what men are asking of you? I’m just fascinated by the snowflakey-ness of men these days.

  4. Des-troyah Avatar

    I’d be doing the same thing if I wasn’t already married. Don’t blame you one bit — and in fact, I’d have to wonder about any woman who at this point in time wouldn’t have that top of mind and high on the non-negotiable list.

  5. trycuriouscat Avatar

    So what was his answer?

  6. Roxpaperscissors Avatar

    Not just the men. Every woman in my life as well. If someone voted against our own greater good, or didn’t even try to help at all after hundreds of years of women’s oppression. I don’t want any human in my life that didn’t and isn’t actively fighting against this. I’d rather stand alone than kneel in unison.

  7. holzmann_dc Avatar

    Friends too.

    Remember, only you can prevent Fascism.

  8. Man_Bear_Pig08 Avatar

    36m I feel the same way. If you voted for trump no explanation necessary. Get bent.

  9. DiligentCorvid Avatar

    If I can be honest, I think women should have been doing this a long fucking time ago.

  10. shehulud Avatar

    Goes double for ‘moderates’ and ‘non-political’ types. The MAGAts know exactly what they’re doing now. They know they’re racists, bigots, and sexist. They know.

    Privileged-as-f*** bros who want to play rhetorical question and funsies debate Candyland with their votes because they’re too politically illiterate are done as well. Sorry the rights of everyone else isn’t harming you personally. Get bent.

  11. vitrol Avatar

    I don’t disagree, but I also don’t want to be lied to. When I was dating, I didn’t put anything about politics/values and only swiped on liberal people, but I still kept quiet while I sussed out their beliefs, pretended to be okay with conservatives and would make them feel like they could be honest with me so they’d share their true feelings and then I’d end it for a different reason if we weren’t politically aligned but try to assure them it wasn’t for politics — didn’t want to end up with someone who lied to keep me in their life.

  12. akneebriateit Avatar

    And a man worth your time will UNDERSTAND why you’re asking

  13. Moranmer Avatar

    Oh my gosh hahaha I love it, you go lady

  14. thedanyes Avatar

    I hope you are blocking the ones who didn’t vote. At least the MAGAs fulfilled their civic duty, even if they did it for the express purpose of hurting people outside their tribe.

  15. innosins Avatar

    I did something like that when I met my husband ten years ago September. Since marriage equality had just passed Supreme Court, I asked him how he felt about it within the first hour. I’ve never been one for conservative men.