TL;DR my parents hate my girlfriend
Sorry for the stuff all over I am feeling strong emotions
I feel as I have been royally fucked in the ass. I have been dating this one girl for quite a bit and we love eachother a lot. My parents decided to go through my phone and learned of her, mind you I was going to tell them soon, and they saw a string of messages talking about her cutting herself. They think she is mentally ill, but it is because her parents are absolute POSs and my parents don’t know about it. My mom is contacting her aunt and wants her parents to know but that’s only going to make it worse. My dad is the only one intruding and wanting to know every little detail, but now I can really look at them the same and I don’t feel comfortable saying anything. I don’t want to be in a room all by myself with them. My dad doesn’t explicitly say that he hates her, but its pretty obvious. They want more details if I want to hang out with her, it if I do then they will hate her more. My mom is worried that something bad will happen to me if I continue to talk to her. I need help ASAP.
Edit: they tool away my phone so I can’t contact her. That happened on Saturday and she was worried about me.
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Your parenta are definitely in need of therapy. They went through your phone at your age?
My god, do they not know how to use words
Ask for a family therapy session for mediation because building up resentment isn’t going to help anyone.
I imagine they’re trying to be protective and misunderstanding or not listening to your point of view, and I can also imagine being a teen that you’re subconsciously doing the exact same thing to them.
I don’t know enough about any party involved to make a sound judgment, but I think a family therapy/mediation session could be a legitimately good idea.
LARP