What makes you respect another man instantly?

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What makes you respect another man instantly?

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  1. emdaye Avatar

    Sticking to their values even if people disagree with them 

  2. simagus Avatar

    Twelve inches.

    (literally just knowing how to use a tape measure is a great start)

  3. TrumpetsGalore4 Avatar

    If his actions match his words.

  4. sensibly-censored Avatar

    Perseverance, when I meet men that despite being put through it. Comes out the other end stronger with a smile. I can’t help but feel tremendous respect for them.

  5. SalesManajerk Avatar

    Respect for me.

  6. IrregularBastard Avatar

    Competence and straightforward interactions.

  7. Neekool_Boolaas Avatar

    Gumption in all things.

  8. Neutreality1 Avatar

    Treating people with kindness and respect when nobody else is looking 

  9. SeaworthinessLong Avatar

    When other dudes stand up for people. I have a lot of great guy friends who stand up for what’s right, which is respect for all people. That’s what society should be based upon.

  10. SeaworthinessLong Avatar

    The ability to call out bullshit, when necessary.

  11. figsslave Avatar

    Keeps his word

  12. tindalos Avatar

    Admitting they were wrong or don’t know something.

  13. A__GC Avatar

    Some real basics, manners and respect to others

  14. ow3ntrillson Avatar

    Consistent logical action

  15. Next-Courage2660 Avatar

    When they respect me i instantly respect them

  16. OJay23 Avatar

    Sticking up for a stranger when they see bullying or unfair behaviour.

  17. Successful_Guide5845 Avatar

    When I see somehow that he wouldn’t throw you or anything to shit because of the remote chance of having sex with a woman.

  18. webmist_lurker Avatar

    When he’s thoughtful about issues, even at the cost of matching expected opinions/positions.

  19. MyExStoleMyGamerTag Avatar

    Showing up for themself and others they care about. It really is that simple sometimes.

  20. 9zmike Avatar

    No instant respect. But I won’t disrespect you either. However, if you prove to be diligent and show a good measure of integrity, you’re getting there to earning it.

  21. Horny-Babe-Girl Avatar

    I may not like it personally but I respect it immediately for social reasons, or I may respect it because the person is not good but I should not disrespect anyone in front of everyone. However, there may be differences of opinion on this matter.

  22. chavaic77777 Avatar

    I respect everyone until proven otherwise

  23. Tree856 Avatar

    Showing respect to everyone they meet. Over time the respect you feel might wane, but even then the respect you show them should be the same as what you hope to be shown. Do unto others and whatnot.

  24. Heavenonearth12 Avatar

    Step up even though it uncomfortable or unfavored for them

  25. Everything-Relative- Avatar

    Speaking up for the underdog/minorities/the ‘weaker’/bullied.

    Integrity

    Discipline

    Knowledge

  26. GorillaHeat Avatar

    depth and nuance to his beliefs

    signs of noble sacrifice

    unyielding positive spin especially in grim circumstances

    reliable during panic

  27. lefthook_hospital Avatar

    Someone who doesn’t switch up who they are depending on who’s around

  28. justpuddingonhairs Avatar

    Doesn’t give unsolicited advice and doesn’t try hard.

  29. LaughPlus7373 Avatar

    Honestly in 2025… if another random at a gas station or whatever says thanks if I hold the door open for him or even just walking by one another and a smile .. people are so angry anymore so any kindness and you got it from me

  30. GideonZotero Avatar

    Being a good dad. That’s hella harder than getting a girl to do flips or being CEO mad hustle or taking selfies in a rented Ferrari

  31. ColdCamel7 Avatar

    Them showing consideration for other people’s feelings, and politeness in general