Hey Gentlemen’s
Excuse my bad English, is not my native language.
I am 25 years old male, I have a stable job and finishing a bachelor’s degree in engineering, I can’t complaint about my life.
Long story short, 8 months ago I had a breakup with a woman I thought I would get married with and have a family. I had a few relationships before her, but this one totally changed my mind set and the way I see things, I think every man has gone through this breakup that totally changes us.
So, I took my time to health, I boosted my confident, I started new hobbies, hitting gym, meeting new people, I feel young and great, I do not want my ex back and her memories don’t hurt anymore but they bring motivation to keep growing.
The thing is that I’ve been dating a few women, and it feels weird, it’s like my expectations over women have changed, I am not trying to replace my ex but most women I am meeting do not have clear goals set as my ex, they do not have the independent mindset or do not worry much about having something going on in their lives. (Most of the ones I’m dating, not every woman of course) feels like they expect you to pay for everything, take care of the logistics, like the fact of getting a relationship with them will resolve their lives. I am very emotionally opened, and I like to discuss about how I feel and make sure how they are feeling but this seems to scare them, or they do not have the same level of communication.
as mentioned, my previous relationships were during earlies 20’s very immature and emotional except for this last one. Now that I am looking for something more serious, I am not sure exactly what to expect, I know I am still young, but I want to make sure I choose the right women and make at least the best decisions.
What to do you guys expect from a woman in a relationship?
Comments
For one they should not be emotionally draining to deal with.
Respect and peace is what they should give you if not complement your life.
If it feels like a chore dealing with them then they are not for you.
I’d advise not rushing to anything til you’re at least 30. I think 25 is still too young and a kid.
I don’t know anymore. I see a lot of women (who look externally nice) now a days the worst. Emotionally maturity or accountability isn’t represent, because they’ll just seek another supply. Most women say, I want to have a man to build together a great future. But most of these women dumped and broke down their previous relationship. Uhm, women seek just too much nowadays from external people. So what I want in a relationship with woman? I really don’t know. I’ve been a bank 🏦 3 times, emotional therapist, and whatever. I’m kinda think most women deep down seek a partner because of status and wealth. And I don’t want that.
The right person will meet you where you are, not make you feel like you’re carrying the whole relationship alone.
Nachos on Demand