Hello!!
I 26f don’t to sound mean or rude. But when I kiss my boyfriend 32m he starts giggling or saying ohhhh.
I kinda want to kiss him. At first I was getting annoyed that he was making sounds. But I kinda slowly kinda like it. Because he seems nervous. It still annoys me. I want to just kiss him. Or he kinda pouts when he wants to kiss me. I am more like just kiss me. And yes I told him this 🤷♀️
I hope I am not an asshole…..
He did say I get excited. I don’t want to say anything because I don’t want to hurt his feelings. I find it kinda cute…but sometimes I just want to sit and make out with him. And not have him giggle or say ohhhh….
I don’t want to sound mean. And I don’t want to hurt his feelings…I am ranting but also want to seek advice on how to change myself…in a way
TLDR my boyfriend 32m keeps giggle while we kiss and make out. I am kinda annoyed by it. But also find it cute.
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I 26f don’t to sound mean or rude. But when I kiss my boyfriend 32m he starts giggling or saying ohhhh.
I kinda want to kiss him. At first I was getting annoyed that he was making sounds. But I kinda slowly kinda like it. Because he seems nervous. It still annoys me. I want to just kiss him. Or he kinda pouts when he wants to kiss me. I am more like just kiss me. And yes I told him this 🤷♀️
I hope I am not an asshole…..
He did say I get excited. I don’t want to say anything because I don’t want to hurt his feelings. I find it kinda cute…but sometimes I just want to sit and make out with him. And not have him giggle or say ohhhh….
I don’t want to sound mean. And I don’t want to hurt his feelings…I am ranting but also want to seek advice on how to change myself…in a way
TLDR my boyfriend 32m keeps giggle while we kiss and make out. I am kinda annoyed by it. But also find it cute.
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That would be a major turnoff. He sounds like a child. Is this his first relationship/first time being intimate? How long have you been together? I would have to at some point have a conversation that I need this to stop so I could take our physical intimacy more seriously.
The biggest red flag here is that you’re not willing to talk to him about it and understand more why he does that. I’d be more concerned the lack of honest communication than the giggling.
How long have yall been together?
It won’t be cute down the road.
I would end it because it’s going to happen more often than not.
That’s why I try to avoid kissin woman altogether
This would give me the ick and I would never ever look back. This is gross
Okay seriously, you two sound like a couple 14 yr olds!
I’m sorry, but i couldn’t help but cackle while reading this lol. Essentially what you’re trying to tell us is that your boyfriend gives you an ick lol. Your boyfriend acts silly when you guys try to make out, and it seems to “turn you off”. It also seems like he isn’t much of an initiator when it comes to making out?
These are small bits and pieces of his personality as a whole, so if these small things are an ick for you, you should consider if his personality as a whole may be a turn off for you later down the road. There’s no way to solve this other than ask him why he giggles when you guys try to kiss. If he does this all the time, i can see how it seems ick-ish lol.
Is he a virgin?
His 32? Sounds like 13. Obviously it’s annoying because it’s a turn off and a behavior that doesn’t match a grown up.
Not much to do then to tell him to stop. He will get over it within a day or so. If he doesn’t well then he isn’t mature enough and you should question the relationships itself.
I had a girlfriend who would laugh during sex. I was like: what the fuck are you laughing for? She just said she laughs when she’s enjoying herself.
Fucking weirdo
Maybe it’s a nervous giggle? Just ask him that. Maybe he thinks your too good looking for him and can’t believe he landed such a good looking girl.
OP, I don’t think you have too many options here:
You tell him how you really feel about his giggles in intimate times. Open communication is key for a good relationship IMO. or
You don’t say anything else about the giggles, convive yourself that is just cute and hope is going to get better.
Your obv takin the piss
I’m sorry but a 32 year old man doing this is cringe and corny