Sooooo super fun. Despite going LC to NC with my mom, her and my aunt still plan to visit in August. Which would be fine….. If I wasn’t pregnant. And not wanting to tell my mom’s side of the family…. So, I could be anywhere from 14-20 weeks along. I have an appointment on the 10th to get dates and projections on baby or…. Babies????
ANYWAY,
How do I hide this baby bump!!!! PLEASE HELP
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Don’t let them visit? You’re NC.
Yeah why are you letting them come? Don’t answer the door.
You’re not required to open the door. It’s highly rude to show up at a person’s doorstep uninvited, especially if you have a tumultuous relationship with them.
“I’m sorry you came all this way, but as I mentioned previously, I have no desire to speak to or see you.”
If they are visiting, you aren’t no contact. Just say NO. It’s a complete sentence.
Don’t allow them to visit.
Problem solved.
My aunt has always been the middle man between me and my mom and I feel so bad for her being in that spot. She 100% understands and validates my feelings regarding my mom. But my mom is her best friend and of course she wants us BOTH to be happy.
All that to say I would love to tell my aunt, if it didn’t put her in a weird spot. And my mom… welll our relationship reallly went downhill after she found out I was pregnant with my first baby… soooo aunt yes. Mom, HELLLLL no
Big hoodies and baggy tees saved me every time 😂 no one suspects a thing if you just say you’re bloated from lunch lol.