I’m 24M, out of college for a bit and I don’t have any friends at all. What can I do?

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I’ve tried Meetup but always felt shy about going, but I feel like its the only avenue for me to meet new people, and it feels like most people keep to themselves or are aloof of what’s happening around them. I almost despise what society has become. Sorry

Comments

  1. Longjumping-Oil-7419 Avatar

    Get a job. Can meet people at work

  2. m0ji_9 Avatar

    What are your interests? Shared interests are a good way to meet as you have a core shared hobby etc.

    Try taking some group classes. For example I personally wanted to try Muay Thai and met great people there as we were all clueless and had no idea. So a good starting point for everyone. Same with a group gym class I went to – met all different people of different ages/backgrounds.

    Starter groups are great because everyone is starting from the same point

  3. Allegiant_Authority Avatar

    Get a job. Can meet people at work

  4. _Alpha-Delta_ Avatar
  5. Johnqpublic25 Avatar

    I used meetup with mixed results when I moved away for work. I find most of my friends are people from work and a few that I’ve met through work. Other than that I’ve done lifelong learning classes at the community college.

  6. PepperSalty5846 Avatar

    looking for friends isn’t the best you could do, focus on other important things