Could be my personal taste, but I really don’t get why many women just want to do sooo much and sooo often whenever they see us have some spare time, I just want to chill, man. That Saturday morning brunch, it can go to hell, honestly.
Sabrina Carpenter, Madison Beer, Taylor Swift, and all the other women that women think are “hot” that we think are “eh…. she’s okay” while we actually want Ana De Armas, Alison Brie and Tori Black
Women having no opinions. Please have a personality, as long as you can recognize everyone else is also entitled to their own opinions.
Women not approaching us.
Lack of emotional vulnerability: This is like sex is for them. We love it, but we really need to trust you to do it with you and for some reason a lot of people think it’s gay to do it with another guy. Also, we’re worried you’ll lose attraction right after we do it with you. The level of trust needed to properly do it takes time and effort, so we don’t like having expectations set to do it immediately in the relationship. We also need to be in the right mood and we’re not comfortable talking about our feelings anywhere – like in a freaking mall, the environment needs to be right and feels safe. Just like you need time to become physically vulnerable, we need time to become emotionally vulnerable. We need to know you’re someone who will make the effort to understand, otherwise there is no point. So it’s not that we don’t love it, we just need time and patience with it.
I dated a girl who had a million qualities in the type of person I could see myself with for the long run…until she showed her true colors: she would insist on trying to start an argument or fight with me, and as I would refuse to engage, she would berate me for not fighting back, and demean me as if there was something wrong with me.
So glad I got out when I did, but it certainly took a while for me to come to terms with the separation; I really wanted things to work, but ultimately, you can’t compromise your self worth in exchange for an abusive relationship no matter how hard you try to tip the scales to justify being with a toxic person.
Gifts. I don’t want a mystery box of you best guess with in your budget allocation for me of what i might want. Steak and a BJ works for everything, Including you, Grandma. Maybe we can do the meat load though.
I have seen and heard so many think that some approach of ‘challenging’ their man or being a ‘brat’ or however they think to describe just being an annoying hardship at home or on the weekend is somehow attractive and makes them stand out. Yeah, after dealing with a fucked up world I really want to come home to a manufactured problem or attitude. That’s thrilling.
TBH, go overboard on hair, makeup, fashion. I hear women talk about how expensive it is for a woman to get ready to go out for a date. It’s not necessary. A little prep is great but it quickly stops adding value. It also leads to stress and disappointment for everyone if it’s not a big night out.
Gossip. The first time or two, I entertain it to be nice. After the 3rd and 4th time, I really don’t care anymore and I don’t want to waste time or energy talking/thinking about it.
Comments
Talk
Their friends.
Conversations about our feelings. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind talking. But sometimes I genuinely just want to be left alone.
How women perform in bed
High body count. No, it doesn’t mean you’re good at sex. It just means you’re good at getting sex.
Chasing them.
Do stuff.
Could be my personal taste, but I really don’t get why many women just want to do sooo much and sooo often whenever they see us have some spare time, I just want to chill, man. That Saturday morning brunch, it can go to hell, honestly.
When they play hard to get. The majority of us are simply confused and we simply assume that you are not interested
Sabrina Carpenter, Madison Beer, Taylor Swift, and all the other women that women think are “hot” that we think are “eh…. she’s okay” while we actually want Ana De Armas, Alison Brie and Tori Black
BBLs and long giraffe lashes and long nails that look like velociraptor claws
Being ditzy or less capable than they actually are. That pisses everyone off
Reality Shows
Their constant complaining
I dated a girl who had a million qualities in the type of person I could see myself with for the long run…until she showed her true colors: she would insist on trying to start an argument or fight with me, and as I would refuse to engage, she would berate me for not fighting back, and demean me as if there was something wrong with me.
So glad I got out when I did, but it certainly took a while for me to come to terms with the separation; I really wanted things to work, but ultimately, you can’t compromise your self worth in exchange for an abusive relationship no matter how hard you try to tip the scales to justify being with a toxic person.
Lingerie
Playing hard to get. Just go for what you want, everyone is tired and doesn’t have the time or energy to figure out what you want, we’ll just leave.
Cosmetic surgery. I do know most women do it for themselves but I either attracted to your natural beauty or Im not attracted to you at all
Giant butts, giant boobs, big fat lips, fake eyelashes, lots of facial piercings.
Lip fillers
Botox
Guessing what they want to eat for dinner.
Being thin
Thinking we like it when other men look at them and we should be “proud” to have the eye candy on our arms.
The last thing I want is some jerk trying to pitch his shot when I leave my seat to go to the toilet or bar.
Talking about our feelings. No fucking thank you.
Ultra-submissiveness. I want a partner, not a little girl.
Fit bodies. In my experience, women love men that look good/groomed/well dressed but not necessarily men who are 24/7 gym bros.
Lubrication.
Bitchy stuck up attitude hiding behind the “Intimated by strong independent woman” saying.
Actual strong independent women dont feel the need to put down others.
Same as the types of men who call themselves “alpha males” just because they are dicks to others
Is showing the basic level of human respect and decency for some people just too hard?
Fake lips
That everything we say is so funny and should be taken as a joke.
The Chase. We chase because we have to, not because we like it.
Asking this question twice a week.
Unrealistic expectations
Lips injection etc
Trying to “fix” us.
Gifts. I don’t want a mystery box of you best guess with in your budget allocation for me of what i might want. Steak and a BJ works for everything, Including you, Grandma. Maybe we can do the meat load though.
I hate gifts though…b
Monogamy.
Themed multi tools. They’re just not very good as tools and we already have a decent equivalent of each item on the tool.
Challenge.
I have seen and heard so many think that some approach of ‘challenging’ their man or being a ‘brat’ or however they think to describe just being an annoying hardship at home or on the weekend is somehow attractive and makes them stand out. Yeah, after dealing with a fucked up world I really want to come home to a manufactured problem or attitude. That’s thrilling.
Maybe it’s just personal preference but I’m not into women who are super loud during sex.
Don’t get me wrong, I want to know you’re enjoying it but maybe the whole neighborhood doesn’t need to know too
TBH, go overboard on hair, makeup, fashion. I hear women talk about how expensive it is for a woman to get ready to go out for a date. It’s not necessary. A little prep is great but it quickly stops adding value. It also leads to stress and disappointment for everyone if it’s not a big night out.
We don’t wanna play games… We’re not mind readers … tell us what you want.
Gossip. The first time or two, I entertain it to be nice. After the 3rd and 4th time, I really don’t care anymore and I don’t want to waste time or energy talking/thinking about it.
Dropping hints like its a video game
I dont understand video game hints and those are more straight forward, so just be direct😂
Baby talk.
“A challenge” aka. being difficult for no reason.
Dating is difficult as is. Life is difficult as is. No need to secretly force men to play hard mode just because, it’s not attractive.
Being corrected if we’re not 100% accurate