Let’s say you see that’s she’s giving you that look that she’s interested, what should you do?
And after you get the number what’s your goal to so you can set up a date?
How do you cold approach a woman?
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Let’s say you see that’s she’s giving you that look that she’s interested, what should you do?
And after you get the number what’s your goal to so you can set up a date?
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Very carefully lol.
You don’t
I don’t. They need to make it clear and stop playing.
I’m not into being dressed down so I don’t
Step 1: be handsome
Step 2: ????
Step3: profit
The male loneliness epidemic on display in real time 😂
I don’t. I have never approached a woman in my life. I just assumed they weren’t interested.
Happily married now.
Compliment something that is specific but non-intensive like her style, or the vibe that she is giving out. Do not pursue appearances head first, that is what makes the difference
You see that’s the neat part… I don’t
Best Cold approach is just be friendly and flirtatious. Initiate subtle touch like a brief extended hand hold after introducing yourself. Keep your body language open and give her plenty of space so she does not feel trapped. Small talk to her for as long as you possibly can. If she turns her body towards you, keep going and up the flirting. If she turns her body or eyes away, she’s not interested, say nice to meet you and move on.
If you get her number, text her when you get home right before bed and ask if she wants to meet up sometime.
I say hey how’s it going and introduce myself. Ask her some questions depending on where we are and what makes sense. Try to have a normal conversation and see if there’s a vibe there. If I think there is, I tell her I want to take her out sometime and ask for her number. Then I text that number later and ask her on a date.
Go stand in a walk-in freezer for a few minutes, then go talk to her
Say “hi I’m __.” Usually goes over somewhat well. Just be confident.
Order her a backup on her drink and oftentimes they’ll either come over and say hi or wave you over to them.
Just be blatantly ridiculous and say stupid shit that’s funny. That works well.
“Hi, I’m Tabitha… what’s your name?” and just keep a straight face, get her name and then say “what are you laughing about? Why the fuck does everyone always laugh when I tell them my name is Tabitha (Her Name) (Your Last Name)?!” And just keep it going getting somewhat pissed.
Do cold approaches ever work?
I stopped after realizing that cold approaching is probably the lowest form of building connection. Just to wind up taking a girl out that you have no desire for because you didn’t take the time to vet her out, and all she did was look at you. I think being able to strike up conversations with a stranger is a good skill, though. If you happen to want to communicate later, it should be a mutual and natural transaction. Take your time getting to know them. Some of them are crazy out here.
I’d Introduce myself and make conversation. Multiple relationships throughout my life have started this way.
It’s not hard but practice helps make it easier and more fluid. Being good at small talk is largely a learned skill.
i always give a girl MY number if im interested, that way its up to her and she won’t feel pressured. if she reaches out, i know she’s interested so then i can just be straight up and ask.
I don’t know, ask Bobby from the X-Men
Be good looking. Otherwise, you’re getting hit with an SA charge.
You don’t.
They don’t want us to approach them at all.
I walked up to her after sharing a smile. Asked how she was doing what her name is, told her mine, and then asked if she’d like to go on a date sometime. Easy as that. We were out in a social setting. Of course, that wouldn’t work on every woman I was interested in. But sometimes you just gotta go for it. If she says no, move on to the next one.
You say, “C’mere Baby” then get her #
It’s definitely harder on your own. Best with a friend.
On your own: if you’re attracted and she keeps looking at you, shoot your shot and open with anything you observe. Easy to break into standing groups, because once one friend accepts you, you become interesting. Or, go sit at a bar and talk to the bartender, patrons and anyone responsive.
With a buddy: invite them to do something with you. Or walk up to a small group and shoot the shit.
Not a master, but once you get the social juices flowing, it’s just about enjoying yourself and enjoying learning other people. If they’re not flowing, take your desperate shot or come back after you’ve gotten them flowing with a good convo. The bit about talking to everyone around you is as much for your sake as passing the sniff test.
How can you tell if she’s “giving you that look like she’s interested”? Eye contact?
Dunk yourself in ice water then go talk to a woman.
You dont, 99% of the time you should leave women alone unless theres a reason to initiate convo.
Use dating apps. If you aren’t having success on those, believe me you wont have success doing cold approaches which rely on appearance
Wait if she gave you a look shes interested then that’s not a cold approach
I generally suck at small talk with attractive women who are strangers. I get tongue tied and my brain freezes. So unless I can map out a possible conversation with her (usually based off of something she’s wearing, carrying or doing/involved with, or some super topical event) I usually don’t engage.
Can someone please explain that look to me where she is interested.
I am at the stage where I notice ladies turning their heads when they walk past me. I hold eye contact but they often quickly look away as if embarassed that I noticed.
Talk to them in a fun way. You can talk about anything.
It’s not what you say. It’s how you say it.
People who are saying you shouldn’t are out of their damn minds. As long as you’re respectful and open (but not expecting) to take a rejection, I see no harm.
Be a 10 or go after 2s
In today day in age u don’t
You talk to them to see if you even like them. You should be qualifying them as they are qualifying you.
If you approach women with mindset of “getting her number” you will create anxiety.
Your goal is not to get their number. It’s to speak to them and get a feel for their personality.
All you need to do is say ” Hey! How’s your Saturday going so far.” And follow up with something relevant. You’re at the grocery, talk about the food or diet. Wherever you are, start the conversation with something relevant after greeting.
Don’t compliment them or tell them you want their number etc, have a god damn conversation. It’s not that hard. Then, if you click and she giggles and plays with her hair, ask for the number before exiting the conversation.
Hi I just wanted to introduce myself. I’m “blank.” The conversation either goes somewhere or it doesn’t. If it does and you both are interested there is no set way to do it. It just happens.
Just go say hi if she’s already giving you the “i’m interested in talking” look.
Failing that i’ve been known to be at the pub, notice someone looking at me and just wave.
> Let’s say you see that’s she’s giving you that look that she’s interested, what should you do?
If she is already giving looks that she’s interested, that’s not a cold approach anymore.
You basically just approach and say hi or do some remark about the surroundings to start a conversation. That’s it. It’s not very complicated if you have basic social skills, it can be intimidating if you have never done it before, but it isn’t hard.
> And after you get the number what’s your goal to so you can set up a date?
Wrong approach. You already plan a date while talking to her, and then you exchange numbers to stay connected for the date.
Walk up and say hi, like a normal person. Be completely normal and interested about her, and don’t even worry about setting up a date until you feel like you’re interested in one and have the impression that she is too.
I have no idea what is that “interested look”.