How to continue after one night stand
So I had my first one night stand as a female late bloomer. He expressed not looking for anything serious at the moment but was also somewhat vulnerable, telling me about his background, some goals and trying to analyze me. He and I exchanged numbers. He ended up leaving something at my place so I messaged him to retrieve it. When he dropped by he was warm but we didn’t do anything due to schedule constraints. He reminded me that I need to tell him what I want to do next time (sexually).
He works an unpredictable schedule and told me he’d like to workout together if his schedule permits. He also asked me to call him when I’m ready (I assume to go at it again.). He’s not the most responsive to text so I wonder why he left all those openings.
Anyway, I would like to go at it again. How can I express my desires as a shy woman? Or is this something to let go of?
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If I had fun and she asked me, nothing more nothing less lmao it’s pretty simple
There’s no such thing as FWB, unless you literally cannot bond with another person like a sociopath.
If he wasn’t interested in continuing he wouldn’t have said and did what he said and did. Don’t overthink it (tough, I know).
Personally, I’d appreciate someone who tried to meet me halfway. His unpredictable schedule shouldn’t dictate everything that happens or rule your lives. I don’t think a relationship is a good idea if it increases stress for either of you. If you’re worth the effort, he may be able to make changes, and vice versa.
PS on re-reading, I would be cautious, since you might be dealing with a “playa” who has a roster. Could his unpredictable schedule include other women?