Hey y’all! I (26F) have a bit of a weird situation. A few months ago, my boyfriend (now fiancé!!! 28M) surprised me with a proposal during a weekend getaway. It was super sweet, intimate, just the two of us on the beach. I had absolutely no clue it was coming.
Now here’s where the drama kicks in: when I got home and shared the news with family, my sister (29F) got weirdly upset. She said she felt “hurt” and “left out” of a major moment in my life.
I was like… girl, I didn’t even know it was happening?? How was I supposed to invite anyone to something I didn’t plan? She told me I should’ve “warned” my fiancé in advance that she’d want to be there. Which, I don’t know, feels kind of unrealistic?
I get that some people like public proposals or family involved, but I actually loved that it was just the two of us. It felt special and private.
But ever since, she’s been super cold and distant. I feel kinda stuck between feeling guilty and feeling like… she’s just making this about her.
What would y’all do? Is this something I should apologize for? Or am I right to be confused?