What did you do when you realized you had subconsciously pushed away a good person or relationship?

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and what did you do about it?

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  1. No-Mind-8096 Avatar

    Tried to make it right, but once you push someone away you’ve lost your chance. It still hurts.

  2. Defiant_Sir767 Avatar

    After this happening a couple of times I realized I am a problem and I spiralled into self loathing. The whole beast of burden nonsense.

    There’s pieces of me I still believe this, which I’m trying to figure out.

  3. AuthenticTruther Avatar

    Let anxiety get the best of me.

    I did nothing about it.

  4. Gamerdent Avatar

    i did not see it back then but she was one of the few people who truly cared while i was too busy running from my own problems. I slowly pushed her away by the time i understood what i had done she was already gone i did not try to pull her back i just accepted it and started fixing myself i knew if i did not change i would keep losing people who actually mattered.

  5. JetBrink Avatar

    I had opened up after being encouraged to just “word vomit” to get my anxiety out. Didn’t like what I said, wouldn’t discuss it further, things ended and it took more than 3 years to get over it.

    Never gonna make that mistake again

  6. failed_install Avatar

    I reached out to her to apologize with no expectations of getting her back, only to express how sorry I was for my behavior.