Meeting with a sex worker gone… in an unexpected direction. This post is an actual advice seeking question. Can you help?

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Dear ladies and gentleman. Recently I had my first experiences in paid sex in my life. I made it all very special, arranged a stunning lady 2 months in advance, and we spent 3 days in a luxurious hotel. It was amazing, we had a great time. Week later temptation kicked in, and after another long research I called a different girl (different as the first one was actually in different country than where I live). Now… I asked for a 3 hour long meeting in gfe style with submission (I like to dominate). I arrived at 23:00, we had an amazing time, and then the lady said she genuinely likes me, she is having a great time, and even though she didn’t sleep with a man for years, she offered me to stay for a night, for free. Then we had some fun in the morning, she had 2 clients booked for the day, so I just paid her what they would pay, and we spent another whole day together. Then the next day I returned to her, I told her in advance with full respect to her work and time I pay for the meeting, which I did. But she asked me to stay a bit longer anyway. Day after she returned to her country and she will be back here in 3 months. She made quite an impression on me, and I would love to actually get to know her more, and well who knows. We chatted a bit since she left, but think I made a large mistake as I offered her I can visit her for some sightseeing together, and I underlined I do not count for intimate time, it is a bonus but not a must, and I would be delighted just to see the town together. She didn’t answer that message at all, and I started to worry that I maybe crossed some boundaries? Think the reason of my post is, I am trying to understand what a person in her situation may be feeling, thinking, how to approach it. Guess at this point I should just forget about the whole situation, and simply return to her as a client in 3 months (which I planned to anyway), and see how it goes? Any thoughts would be highly appreciated. To be clear, it’s not that I suddenly felt in love or got seduced, but as weird as it may sound, I had a normal, beautiful connection during that meeting and I would love to get to know her more, if she wants the same. Thank you for your understanding and consideration!

EDIT: Thank you kindly for all your replies. They make a lot of sense, I considered them too, although indeed came to believe she wasn’t lying. If so, in the end of a day I still got 10 times more than what I paid for and she gave me an incredible service. Positive memories count 🙂 Thank you once again!

Comments

  1. Nige78 Avatar

    Just no.
    She did exactly what you paid her to, please don’t get suckered into thinking it was anymore than that.

  2. Plus-Relationship833 Avatar

    Man, you got finessed.

  3. CulturalTortoise Avatar

    They’re literally paid to make a connection with you. It makes you feel good so they get repeated customs with you and therefore they get more money.

  4. YerAWizrd Avatar

    She’s not feeling anything. You paid for GFE, you got GFE. This is a business transaction for her, as it should be for you. If you can’t differentiate between this and a true relationship, stop booking GFE.

  5. Telrom_1 Avatar

    This is business. You realize you’re a client and she’s providing a service? If she’s a professional she doesn’t feel a thing and only sees you as an income stream. She’s also likely being trafficked. She’s not at home in some village in the country she’s where ever her traffickers have her.

  6. ped009 Avatar

    This is the biggest red flag imaginable

  7. MINIPRO27YT Avatar

    You’re her investment

  8. OjamaPajama Avatar

    Bro she’s working, she’s not interested in you. For all you know she didn’t have anyone booked and she just told you she did. You got exactly what you paid for, it was a transaction, it is done.

    It’s either that or she wants that sweet fiancé visa. Guess that’s also possible.

  9. bretty666 Avatar

    you got suckered. big time. im selling a guide on how not to be suckered, its only 250$ and i can email it to you.

  10. Hot_Damn99 Avatar

    Dude just don’t meet her after 3 months. Nothing good is gonna come out of that for you. Find some other hooker or a partner who you won’t have to pay for getting intimate.

  11. RelativeCan5021 Avatar

    She didn’t have two clients the next day. 

  12. epicpillowcase Avatar

    Albie Di Grasso, that you?

  13. Horror-Photograph247 Avatar

    Go watch White lotus season 2, you will get your answer

  14. Flowbo408 Avatar

    You paid her to leave, you got what you paid for

  15. Crypt0-n00b Avatar

    You paid for the connection, the feelings you got were the product.

  16. mronion82 Avatar

    So she hadn’t slept with a man for years, but had two clients booked? Does that sound right?

  17. Weaubleau Avatar

    Are you Richard Gere?