As many of you know, my MIL has an active guardianship on my wife.
Turns out it was finical and medical. She absolutely tried to justify it stating it’s normal to have this and that. Well the attorney told me 10k upfront and she can make it go away. I said I’ll find some money but I won’t be able to obtain it for awhile without help. So I’ll call them tomorrow and let them know I don’t want to move forward with representation
Well, the guardianship was also granted and effective 2 months after we married. Which well, is fraud. She didn’t report the wedding to the courts she literally reported it as “mentally incompetent and lives with me” so the judge acted accordingly with the wrong information.
Never informed either and never was served to go to court. No party was served the guardianship notice. She lived with me for over 3 years been together just a few days shy of 4 years
That’s it, I’m done.
Now I’m going to go file in the morning and do no attorney
Come to find out, MIL even told the neighbors that she will absolutely do this with no court. Shes scared to go to court, mainly because she knows what’ll happen
Well, that’s jail. Mil will go to jail. Full stop. If there was a court
They even returned the engagement ring and left me a notarized form stating they only taking her stuff lremarriage. Nothing from post marriage, they will not touch my stuff, don’t want anything else. They didn’t return the wedding ring, but I don’t want it id lawn it. I gave the engagement back to my mom.
All her stuff is gone, only thing left is her degree, all the old pictures of us, some high quality canvas prints of the wedding, her computer I gave her and the bed frame I bought for the mattress she has. Threw her old one out and used her bed because it was so much more comfortable but I didn’t like the frame so we got a replacement. They left it and swapped the mattresses and brought the old bed frame for the old king. They even left her computer I got her
Looks to be quick and easy, only real problem is the wife is on the mortgage and deed.
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Report the MIL for the fraud she needs to face consequences of her actions. She will probably have a shit storm if she’s thrown in jail.
Marriage or not, wife or not, you should still report MIL for fraud. She wants to make a divorce quick, easy and painless but it isn’t for your benefit. It’s for her benefit and safety. She lied on government forms. She collected money. She’s the one who’s going to be in trouble if this comes out.
Personally, I’d still file for fraud before divorce. If your wife is mentally incompetent, she deserves someone who’s actually going to protect and take care of her. If she isn’t, she’s still siding with someone who exploited the system.