I dont talk to her directly anymore but when we do see her she msgs me the next day saying how great it was etc etc. Like an old fashioned courtesy next day message. I just dont reply. I feel rude about not replying to her but she’s fake. Just stop talking to me. Stop trying. Deal with your son. I just can’t get past it. Idk HOW to get over it. For a brief context, she said a bunch of things about my mum who’s passed away implying I wasnt raised well, probably because I didnt let her pretend to be mum (she still points to herself when my toddler says “mama”, carries on about skin-to-skin as if it was her right that was taken from her) or makes comments about activities that are “better for their development”. Everything is my responsibility and my fault. She will ask the same things is different ways, sometimes seperately to each of us or his brother will ask it but we know theyre playing us. My partner is fine with me not replying. He says he knows his mother and that she is abusive and has a mean streak. He has his way of dealing with her.
I just hate her. My question is, after we see or talk to her, and she msgs me, how do I NOT let her get to me?
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