I don’t think my husband hears or understands me and my feelings.
if being very briefly we are 5 years together, raising a beautiful baby, but pretty often I feel like I’m on my own. I accepted that he’s gaming a little too much but when it comes to talking about us – it’s just a disaster.
When I’m trying to talk and explain my feelings he finds a way to turn everything around and make me feel bad… we barely talk or spend quality time together because we have a little one. But sometimes when I see other couples managing to do everything together I feel jealous, I want that too ;(
me 31 / husband 34
TLDR Did it help/ ruined your relationship? Was your partner able to accept specialist opinion?
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It didnt help because my ex was only interested in criticising me and not reflecting on himself
It hurt my relationship significantly the consular took sides and only focused on the problems. Try how to win friends and influence people by dale carnigie, lsd and meditation