Surprize blowjobs, over rated or actually appreciated?

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So my bf has an important exam this morning and I was thinking, depending on his mood when he’s back, to surprise him with..well, you know, exactly what the title says. He is used to me cooking nice meals(we also cook alot togheter, when he’s at work I use to make him a nice meal or sweets) so cooking something nice is not a surprize now, also we have a really good sex life so he’s not missing that either so I was thinking the only thing left would be for me to initiate making him feel good with a blowjob, not expecting anything back.
But I am also not sure he wants that? I mean he loves it when we sleep togheter as we both do this sometimes, but I was wondering, do you guys actually like it if we go for it randomly? and it’s not you the one asking? Or if it’s not a part of the sexual a actvity per total, like having sex and also doing that too ’cause we’re both in the mood?
I am just a bit not sure if he wants it randomly like that, because I think at myself-I want him all the time of course because he’s my man, but maybe at times is not the best moment-tired, stressed after/before exams etc
I want to make him relax a bit-keep in mind he’s very chill anyways about exams- and also I love making things and surprizing him, but I ran out of surprises:))
So in general, do you guys actually really like this or it’s more of a myth that you are down for it at any time?

Comments

  1. Readdebt Avatar

    Only time I wouldn’t want a random bj is if I didn’t feel fresh. If he’s coming home from an exam he’s probably spent the day sweating and feeling icky. Maybe tell him you haven’t had a shower yet, and you want him to join you. Start the foreplay their and take him back to the room and do the deed

  2. Specialist-Pilot-74 Avatar

    Your s/o will appreciate anything you do as a surprise for them (because you’re thinking about them, and that’s really, really sweet 😊)

  3. Entire-Chef8338 Avatar

    Very much appreciated

  4. RomanVlasov95 Avatar

    After stressed exam no matter of result it could be a good thing

  5. nofacenocase2074 Avatar

    anytime you mention bjs the guys flood in the comments like a bunch of wild animals. of course they are going to say it’s appreciated

  6. DirtyLeftBoot Avatar

    Personally, if one of my exams goes poorly, I’m usually not in the mood for anything the rest of the day. If it went well, then I’d probably appreciate it. You know him best, so judge his mood as well as you can before making a move

  7. Necessary_Ad5643 Avatar

    Everybody is different, discuss it. Some guys have self esteem issues so it would be an ego boost for you to initiate; some other guys have baggage and would rather not; others might judge you for being too sex positive for their own comfort; others again might enjoy it but are too stressed out due to their job or other circumstances and wont even see it as a relief.

    Start by telling him that you would love to surprise him once in a while and make it clear it is out of love and appreciation. If he has any boundaries or feels that he wouldn’t enjoy it under certain circumstances, he should tell you. And if it’s something you really want and he’s on board, make this talk sexy and enjoy being young and in love.

  8. jimi7714 Avatar

    Jesus christ, I can’t actually believe i need to say this. I guess I can’t speak for every man in the world but I’d say a safe estimate is probably 99.9% of men in the world would be delighted to recieve a blowjob of any kind surprise or not. If you think he might be worried about being a bit sweaty and gross from a long day, then tell him to shower cause you are going to give him a blowie. It will make his day.

  9. wombat-8280-AUX-Wolf Avatar

    Cheesy if you do it after work before the shower. Hope you like picking your teeth.