my dad has his own company and (im not bragging pls don’t hate) we were RLLY rich for a while like it was always business or first class on planes, we had personal chefs and maids, and a personal driver too!!! but like ever since the covid it’s just been going down and i think we r still rich he just doesn’t want to spend money on me anymore because i’ve seen what he’s been up to on his phone.. thousands and thousands of dollar spent on nudes of random girls
and i’m in middle skl omw to high school yet i don’t have the education to support myself !!! what do i do? (btw i’ve confronted him before and he blamed it on his hormones or whatever but he’s like 45)
my dad is spending my school tuition on nudes
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Show him some free porn sites, then he won’t need to spend money on nudes
That man is straight up failing you, and blaming it on “hormones” at 45 is pathetic. If I were you, I’d call his ass out again and loop in someone who can actually hold him accountable, because you shouldn’t have to suffer for his bullshit.
Consider speaking to another trusted adult about your situation for guidance.
he needs Christ bro we often cant overcome the lusts of the flesh on our own.
Humans withhout a spouse nor connection to the Almighty to fulfil them are prone to seek fulfilment and connection with endless partners or substance abuse. both only lead to becoming a hollowed out wreck.
i suggest showing him a few studies on the damaging effects for inspiration:
https://www.neurosciencenews.com/neuroscience-pornography-brain-15354/amp/
https://drtrishleigh.com/can-porn-damage-your-brain/
Jesus Christ, just how old is he? He could have literally have Ai made those nudes and only spend like 20 bucks for premium. Tell him to do this instead of encouraging women to sell their bodies whose fathers failed them
That’s a heavy load for someone your age to carry, none of this is your fault. You’ve already done something brave by confronting him, but this is bigger than what you can fix alone. You need to talk to a trusted adult another family member, a school counselor, or someone safe because you deserve support and stability right now.
aren’t nudes free these days?
get this man a hobby, ask him to play some sports, idle minds harbor these types of thoughts
Better buckle down hard, study hard, get the best grades and be prepared to do this on your own. Your dad sucks and will never take your education seriously, so sadly, you will need to.
Maybe you can tell this to your uncle/aunt from your father or the professionals, maybe they can give your father some advice.
How do you know it’s your school tuition? Has he said you can’t go to school anymore?
How do you know he is paying thousands of dollars for these pictures?
And why would he cut you off just because you saw something on his phone.
I am struggling to understand why you think you have the right to confront him about what he does on his phone.
It all seems a bit weird, I don’t know if this is real or not.
Maybe ask him, hey dad when I’m 18 should I get a only fans to pay for college?