30f and 33M
TL;DR, boyfriend giving reasons and backing out due to family
30f in relationship with 33M, in relationship since 8-9 months. We were ready for wedding, I asked him if I have to go forward and tell families. We spoke to my family and they were Okayish.
He spoke to his mom but she didn’t agree due to caste differences. He initially said we will marry if your family agrees. My family are more probed towards agreeing. He changed his mind and said it will tough to go to forward without parents. He gave his reasons. Reasons are easy to find. When you have motive to marry no matter what you will marry. Nevertheless I didn’t force and left him on blocked.
I wanna give all girls there before you really move forward in your relationship analyse the wedding situations on either side. Because it’s very hard to take the decision in the harder way.
Did you have any experience like this? If yes, how did you manage? How did you move on?
If your boyfriend promised hadn’t then trust me you are gods gifted child. Because marrying your love is not everyone’s cup of tea.
Comments
Love should transcend cultural differences. You deserve someone who will stand by you, against all odds.
I married outside my culture and my wifes family was not 100% on board with our marriage (largely due to me be estranged from my physically and emotionally abusive parents, long story). But they came around eventually. This sucks that he didn’t go through with the wedding, I’m sorry you are hurting, I hope you find a worthy partner soon because is sounds like you were willing to risk a lot for him, and he really didn’t appreciate it.