How can I make my partner more reciprocal in bed

I’ve tried everything. He wanted it more than I do, i got off the pill because of many reasons but also the kill to my libido. he clearly wants sex he just doesn’t put much effort in on his end. Working out makes me extremely horny and i’m starting to find myself frustrated at where our sex life is which is odd because it’s usually been the other way around, that while i’m good in bed i’m disappointing because i usually fall off which is why i had decided to just be celibate and was when we had started dating. I feel like im doing everything and getting nothing in return