My partner and I have been together 6+yrs have a child 3yrs old. He told me he was going on a business trip so I agreed. I take a look at my best friends Facebook and she’s posted pictures with my partner In Thailand and Bali all loved up. I look on my partners Facebook from my brother’s account and he’s obviously blocked me from seeing his posts but shows up on my brother’s account. How do I deal to this? He returns home in 2 more days.
Cheating in Thailand
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You have two days to consult with a divorce lawyer.
Agree with AtlantaDAve998. Gather evidence when possible: screenshots, text copies, receipts, time stamped SM pictures, credit card statements. Lawyer up immediately; you have to protect yourself and he is already several steps ahead of you.
Maybe you want to message him already now to spoil the rest of his holidays
Put a comment on your BFs FB page saying it looks like she’s having a wonderful time. Ask whether you can meet her new boyfriend when she gets back as he looks like a doppelgänger for your partner.
They’re not even taking precautions considering he’s visible on her Facebook page? Is this man aware he’s in a relationship with you?
Screenshot and print the photos.
Have him sit down and silently place the photos on the table. Without a word, just let him start talking.
Repeat process with so called friend
Divorce him! He’s a terrible cheater and you don’t want your child to grow up near a man like this, you both deserve better
Well, your former “best friend” either thinks you are OK with this, or forgot to block you.
You have a couple of days to make whatever arrangements you need to dump him. Arrange housing, split acounts, whatever. Someone mentioned common law marriage, look into that to see what rights you may have, and research child support.
Have a family member present for safety when he gets home. Hand him printouts of the pictures, and see how fast a talker he is. Maybe video this so you can have just lame excuses on record.
Pack all this stuff and print out the pictures and tape them to the top of the boxes. Or send his packed stuff to a relative of his.
Have your friend help you get your stuff out of the house.
Let photo of them all over the place. Sent pics to friends and families, so there is no doubt he is at fault.
Not only does he cheat, but he’s also really, really, dumb.