my bf (23M) is straight up fucking abusive. i’ve (20F) been with him for a year or two. He has nothing , no car no job. and i met a guy at my job. he’s sweet and i told him after a few weeks of talking that i have a boyfriend. And he told me understands. it’s different then regularly cheating to me tho because i actually can’t leave my relationship and he’s controlling. I can’t even text my coworker. but he told me im too pretty for that shit and that i’m still his baby loll. So we’re going on a date this weekend and my anxiety is up because yes i hate my bf but i never took things this far with someone behind his back im scared. And when i say my bf is abusive TRUST ME. i just hope my coworker doesn’t judge me. i hope he doesn’t look at me as a bad person and i hope he isn’t just trying to have sex with me. i can’t stop thinking about him what should i do? i’m having a lot of anxiety right now, I kind of want to text him but i’m an overthinker
update i texted him lol he said he misses me!!!
TL;DR My bf is abusive and i’ve find someone else.
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You can’t dump your loser bf, why?
Just wait till your boyfriend is out of the house and move all your stuff out back to your folks’ place.
If you are too scared to leave him, why aren’t you too scared to cheat? Can’t have it both ways
Then leave the loser. Set up cameras to record any kind of abuse.
just throw your bf out of the house. abusers shd get no mercy, especially ones who cant even provide for themselves.
enjoy w the coworker, he sounds sweet