For context we have a small house so when I’ve caught them it’s been on the sofa which is right next to the kitchen. The first time I was in my room and I heard them in the living room so I turned up my music and didn’t say anything, the second time it was around 10pm and I let them know I was omw Home but when I walked into the corridor I heard shuffling then I went into the living room to say hi and my dads sack was still out of the blankets but I just acted like I didn’t notice and went to bed. This time I’ve been in my room for hours with my AirPods in so I couldn’t hear anything but when I went to get water I saw them naked and asleep next to each other on the sofa but I acted like I didn’t notice again and she told me to turn of the lights “ so she didn’t wake up”. I really need advice idk what to do sorry this is long
I keep walking in on my parents and idk what to do
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Omg they do it in the sofa with no walls? Or anything hiding them. Thats traumatizing
You need to have a conversation with your parents about something called boundaries. And sorry kid that your parents are so immature that they can’t keep their sex life private from their own child. That’s not normal and it’s unfortunate for you and I’m sorry. Best of luck kid. 💜
Some cultures (European???) this is perfectly normal. I am lead to believe. Or somewhat believe.
If you think about it, your parents are expressing their love for one another. Isn’t that a good thing??
If you were raised where the human body is a beautiful thing. And sex between to consenting people is a beautiful thing. Then there would be no issue.
However, that is not how we are raised.
My suggestion is to talk to one or both and come up with a solution that you don’t have to be subjected to this.
They aren’t worried about being caught or privacy. It’s so bad for you as their son, they have to understand that they can’t go on like this.
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You need to calmly talk to them about it and express how it makes you feel
Their house their rules.
But still talk to them and tell them your feelings and ask for a warning sign/heads up.
Wait why am I getting downvoted for this😭 what did I do
Knock.
I’d make their life a living hell until they realize to fuck in private where you can be comfortable in your own home
Hear weird noises turn around and go the other way. But hooray for your parents for still doing the deed.
I just asked gemini (it’s built into my phone) to draft a letter for someone in your position and it came back with a great draft to get you started- I’m sure you could do this easily!!
Embarrass them back, just yell “stop fucking around me or I’ll puke on you.”
Just join them once. If you like it kep.dkinh it if you don’t use your communications kills to explain why. They will.stop.
It is super inappropriate that they’re having sex while you’re home in common areas. Tbh they shouldn’t even have sex in common areas while you’re not home. It’s gross. You need to have a conversation with them.
dads sack was still out of the blankets
…wtf
It seems like your parents do it on purpose & wants you to catch them. Idk just sounds gross to me. As a mother myself when I have sex with a man, I absolutely make sure my kids aren’t home.
Definitely need to tell them straight up to have some respect and dignity. I get its a small house, but they can absolutely have some regard for you and your comfort. But on the bright side, at least your parents are still crazy about each other 😂