I have gone through a huge weight loss and lost almost 100 lbs in the last year. I am a mom of 3 and went through a huge life event and decided it was time for a change in every aspect of life. I am only 28 but I have ALWAYS been a VERY big girl. I was 260 when I started my journey and now I have loose skin and it adds to the already ugliness of my fat and I am worried that in clothes I can be found attractive but once my clothes come off, how harshly do men take the flabby extra skin? I am still just as self conscious out of clothes as I have been most of my life.
How much of a turn off is loose skin when you sleep with a woman?
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Guys that care are not the guys you want. It’s not a big deal at all.
Congrats on the weight loss!
Tell the guy about that journey and let him know where you’re at with your own level of comfort with your body. It’ll sort itself.
Can’t say I’ve ever thought about that in my entire life
You’re worth finding someone who accepts you for you. If they care, leave em in the dust.
Single mom is the bigger turn off. Fuck that.
If it’s not insanely loose and dangly, it’s most likely able to be overlooked. Three kids is probably more of a turn-off than this loose skin.
The right person won’t care. There are lots out there.
If you want to build some self esteem, consider visiting a nudist resort. You’ll be free to be seen without judgement.
Well done on the weight loss! For me personally what you’re describing is a red line and I’d never get to the point of clothes coming off. The loss of 100 pounds is easy to tell even dressed. There are those that aren’t bothered by that, as evidenced by the fact you have three kids.
I would suggest just let him know in advance so it doesn’t come off as a shock when he undresses you.
It’s a super turnoff, I will ghost after no matter how much I like her. I now ask about weight loss and even check arms for loose skin before becoming intimate