Why a lot of people try to make their ex jealous, even if they claim to hate them?
Why a lot of people try to make their ex jealous, even if they claim to hate them?
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Why a lot of people try to make their ex jealous, even if they claim to hate them?
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Revenge
The best revenge is living well
There’s a thin line between love and hate. Deep down the ex still has power over them and a strong hold on their heart. It’s pitiful when you think about it. Might as well be honest about your feelings.
Well, why would they if they claim to love them?
Hope of reconciliation, weirdly.
Immaturity and lack of options.
My ex betrayed me. At the time, would I love for revenge, sure. But not much these days . I’ve worked on myself, stayed single throughout and found my own happiness in my own life.
And you know what? Walks in a girl who I’m actually more attracted to than my ex wife.
I don’t wish revenge on my ex wife anymore at all. Infact, I wish her well and that she is happy. Because I’m happy with my new relationship. My ex wife gets to witness it firsthand too whenever she picks the kids up. The smile and glow on my face , I don’t know if it annoys her. But man, she definitely knows now that I’ve moved on and already past whatever happened between us.
Ego.
I think it’s less about making them jealous and more about how awesome your life is now🤔
How, actually your life is great, they was holding me back, they were the problem and not me…..and I was obviously better, isn’t that right lisa🤨
Because they feel the opposite to what they are projecting.
Ego, just ego reasons. I consider this the dark side of a sense of identity and confidence which shows when these things are called into question by the breakup.
That depends on who broke up with whom.
If they are the one who broke up with their SO, it’s generally going to be “see, I can do much better than you.”
If they are the one who got broken up with, It’s to try to get them to want them back.
Honestly it stems from a place of wanting them to realize what they lost.
Though I dont hate my ex,
Im sad to say I for hope that too,
But I just focus on self improvement
Anyone who cares what their ex thinks, isn’t over their ex.
My ex’s can win the lottery and go fuck Brad Pitt, I don’t care, they’re not my problem any more.