I had a traumatic experience with a stranger i met. And as every logical person would do, i went on to keep meeting people when i left the hospital after weeks. 600 people totally rejected meeting me from tinder. But then one wanted to meet me witghout wanting naked pics or anything. I accepted ofc and went where he wanted the next day without asking anything about him.
He was good??? He didn’t rush me to anything, he took me for coffee, talked to me, comforted me, NEVER gave me alcohol and when he noticed i was nervous, he was supportive and hugged me, said it’d be fine and okay.
I didn’t enjoy it, i do not like sex, but he let me stay a bit in a hug and it just healed me. i didnt care that i didnt want the sex. Afterwards he did not kick me out and i was shocked. i was like, 600 people didnt even want to meet me And the first one that had met me, had kicked me out because i was bleeding.
No he did not kick me out, he gave me a bath 🙁
and before i left, he hugged me and kissed me 🙁
and then i hugged him again seconds later and he wouldn’t let me go and hugged back really tightly 🙁
i want THIS EVERY DAY to live. Nothing else.
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A hug is healing!!! And people don’t take being touch starved seriously enough it’s so heartbreaking. I don’t think you should take dating app rejections so seriously, it requires so little commitment it’s hard for anyone to give it the gravity dating usually comes with.